adl-kaan
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Assalam Alekum all , should I come out( I have same-sex attractions) to my friend/friends that I have attractions towards my own gender? ( I am Male 20 Y.o)... I want to struggle with these feelings, I know its a test , I know they cannot change my situation , its all in ALLAH'S hand ...but isn't it better to share , so that I can be my real self to someone ..maybe they can help me ...should I trust them ? , maybe they can help me with my feelings , Console me ..isn't it better to talk to them then seeking care/affection from bad people online ( I mean chatrooms , stalkers )...? I read someone that its not wise to reveal your secrets to your friends they can be your enemy ; I think some Islamic Scholar said that , and that we should have limits in friendship etc. maybe it means that I am asking from a human rather than Allah ..I don't know what to do ? I never came out to anyone in real-life....how would I know this friend of my is Trust-worthy and this disclosure isn't going to affect our friendship and brotherhood ....that they aren't gonna judge me .help me kindly all brothers and sisters. What is ISLAMIC opinion on disclosing secrets . P.S I live in Pakistan