xo.gold-digga.ox
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is it wrong to have a boyfriend in islam even if you proper love him with all your heart?...i kind of love this guy probably even more than my family. we grew up together on the same state and im not at college anymore but we still spend time together. hes been here for me and supported me more than my own family? am i not allowed even then??
and it says in islam about keeping good company..like having good friends?if thats what it means i wont have any left! all my 'muslim' mates are really westernised.i'd say my non muslim mates are more 'better than them. my 'muslim' mates were the ones that got me clubbing and things and not one of my non muslim friends went out or drank, etc even on their own when i was with them..
ive got lots of guy friends. more than i have girls, i only know and talk to about 4 girls..who ive known about 1-2years, but our friendship doesnt last because of our clashing opinions! and the guy mates ive known since i could toddle and i find it easier to chat to them even about islamic stuff. some of them are practising muslims and do tell me to bugger off, that its not right for girls to chat to non related guys. but ill end up ringing them or linking them when im bored.
i just think its ok to have guy mates who are decent than my girl mates who make me do non islamic stuff anyway.the girls make me do bad stuff and the guys make me or will encourage me to do good...so is it still wrong because its not like im in a relationship with them or anything like that.just talking...this has probably been discussed before? but i cant find the answer im looking for
and it says in islam about keeping good company..like having good friends?if thats what it means i wont have any left! all my 'muslim' mates are really westernised.i'd say my non muslim mates are more 'better than them. my 'muslim' mates were the ones that got me clubbing and things and not one of my non muslim friends went out or drank, etc even on their own when i was with them..
ive got lots of guy friends. more than i have girls, i only know and talk to about 4 girls..who ive known about 1-2years, but our friendship doesnt last because of our clashing opinions! and the guy mates ive known since i could toddle and i find it easier to chat to them even about islamic stuff. some of them are practising muslims and do tell me to bugger off, that its not right for girls to chat to non related guys. but ill end up ringing them or linking them when im bored.
i just think its ok to have guy mates who are decent than my girl mates who make me do non islamic stuff anyway.the girls make me do bad stuff and the guys make me or will encourage me to do good...so is it still wrong because its not like im in a relationship with them or anything like that.just talking...this has probably been discussed before? but i cant find the answer im looking for