Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
Assalam alaikoum
I asked a similar advice before on here but the issue changed into a next level so i wanted to ask it this way;
I wanna get married but parents say ''No...first finish your studies, then do whatever you want''.
Sometimes i think i can patience, but then a time comes when i really lose my mind and i dont wanna fall into sins, you know. For example, now i am okay alhamdolillah, i feel like i can show patience, but i cant keep this mood all time. Do you know what i mean ?
So the thing is, i dont have job normally BUT i asked 1,2 knowledgable person and they encouraged me. They said, Allah may help me, i should just go for it. But i fear one thing. What if Allah doesnt help me because i will go against my parents ? I can try to trust in Allah and be brave but i fear what if i am doing what Allah doesnt want me to do.
These brothers i asked, told me first of all i should find a good Muslim girl. For this, i might register some sites etc. but i dont know if i should listen them or just dont waste any money/effort on this as long as my parents are same.
What should I do ? Please give me some advice
I asked a similar advice before on here but the issue changed into a next level so i wanted to ask it this way;
I wanna get married but parents say ''No...first finish your studies, then do whatever you want''.
Sometimes i think i can patience, but then a time comes when i really lose my mind and i dont wanna fall into sins, you know. For example, now i am okay alhamdolillah, i feel like i can show patience, but i cant keep this mood all time. Do you know what i mean ?
So the thing is, i dont have job normally BUT i asked 1,2 knowledgable person and they encouraged me. They said, Allah may help me, i should just go for it. But i fear one thing. What if Allah doesnt help me because i will go against my parents ? I can try to trust in Allah and be brave but i fear what if i am doing what Allah doesnt want me to do.
These brothers i asked, told me first of all i should find a good Muslim girl. For this, i might register some sites etc. but i dont know if i should listen them or just dont waste any money/effort on this as long as my parents are same.
What should I do ? Please give me some advice