Preparing for Ramadan

MUHAMM7D

Muslim
When we know we are to attend a wedding, we begin to plan and prepare from days and even weeks in advance. We pay much attention to detail so that we arrive to the function on time, are dressed up smartly with clean/ new shoes, have organised a place to stay, eat carefully so as not to ruin our clothing and so on. In a similar way we prepare and plan for other important events, functions, interviews etc.

However, when it comes to approaching our Islamic duties/ obligations we do so little in advance, especially for Ramadan. For some reason we feel we can flick a switch and become great pious personalities overnight. In fact, while this may work short term, in the long term you will more likely ‘burn out’ and return to your former self or in a worse condition. Is it not true afterall that in the middle of the month Ramadan the Masjid halls during taraweeh are at half capacity to what they were in the first few days??

Therefore it is much better we prepare and plan for our deeni activity, much like we do for the dunya ones and inshallah in this manner we can make the most of the blessed month of Ramadan and remain consistent upon the a’maal we adopt.

Anyway, with Ramadan due to start soon I thought it would be good to make a list of things in preparation for Ramadan. Please leave your comments and suggestions as well, via the comments below.

* Increase in recitation of the Quraan. If possible, complete a minimum of 1 part to daily so as to make 1 whole complete recital of the Holy Quran during Ramadan.
* Try and perform 4 rakah (units) of tahajjud before partaking in Suhoor.
* Learn a, or many prophetic duas in Arabic.
* As much as one can keep Allah in your heart by doing Dhikr eg: La ilaaha illallah, Allahu-akbar, Subhan-Allah, Alhumdulillah etc.
* Devoting more sincerity and concentration into our existing daily prayers.
* Try and utilise the month to give up smoking.
* For the more foul mouthed amongst us, try to refrain from swearing the whole month. Friends can help here by lightly hitting or gently reminding his/ her friend each time they swear that they shouldn’t do it. (please note, I take no responsibility for any limbs that may be broken from the above suggestion!)

A small request I make is that if a brother or sister becomes more religious simply for the month of Ramadan, then rather than shooting our mouth off, saying he/ she is a hypocrite and its only for Ramadan etc, why don’t we give gentle words of encouragement so they might continue their virtuousness even after the month of Ramadan. Why should we be so mean to taunt them about what we THINK is only temporary on their part?

If we were to step back a moment and realise that this is the last Ramadan we will see in our lifetime, how would we spend it? How many Muslims do you know of who aren’t around this year to see Ramadan?

Death we know can come to us at any time, yet we still remain so ignorant of the blessing of the time now given to us to be utilised by Allah the Almighty.

I pray Allah gives, first of all me, and all Muslims the ability to utilise the month of Ramadan and safeguard ourselves from the punishment hereafter, Ameen.
 

muna

ابنة الاسلام
Masha allah very true n beautiful post there wallahi brother very impresst wid u 'may Allah bless and shower his mercy on u 4 ur gr8 effort'
can't wait 4 Radaman 'may Allah make us those who meet its blessings and forgivenesses- not those who miss it'
 

Aisya al-Humaira

الحمدلله على كل حال
Assalamua'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh,

Jazakaallahu khayr.

Just like a warrior will be well-prepared with all the strategies, weapons and supply before going for a battle, the same apply for us to enter the blessed month of Ramadhaan. Maybe to those who has fast during all Ramadhaan of his/her life wouldnt have the same feeling with the one who will be performing his fast for the first time in Ramadhaan. How excited is the latter!

Apart from that, we may some time forget the abundance of virtues, the Ajr and all kinds of tremendous rewards awaiting for those who sincerely fast and worship during the month of Ramadhaan. But of course, we shouldnt be fasting just for the sake to get rewards (even though it is OK), but whats even better is performing our obligatory worship out of Love for Allaah subhanahu wa Ta'ala.

In a lecture last Ramadhaan, the speaker said that we shouldnt just let ourselves to be soo spirited and full of energy to do lots of goodness just in this one blessed month. But instead, we should ensure that we will be Istiqamaah (steadfastness) even in other months. Going to the masjid everyday or giving sadaqah daily shouldnt be our priority only in the month of Ramadhaan but also to be done throughout the whole year, bi ithnillah.

Ramadhaan is a month that is given to us, the Mu'mineen as it shows how The Most Gracious and Most Merciful Allaah is. After 11 months letting ourselves eat all kinds of food, now its time for us to reduce in the consumption of food and focus more on our heart. This holy month is actually given to us in order for us to take heed in seeking for His Forgiveness and making as much du'a as we can.

Do not let this blessed month passed by just like any other months, as if there is nothing special about it. Let us all make this coming Ramadhaan better than the previous as we arent sure if we'll be able to meet Ramadhaan next year.

Do not forget to make dua'a too - for our brothers and sisters in Palestine, Chehnya, Iraq and all around the world. May we be alive to see the victory of Islam one day or otherwise, may our generation be among those who will contribute to our deen, Ameen Ameen Ameen.

A reminder that goes for my very own self first and foremost.

Wa'alaykummusalam wa rahmatullah.
 

Muslimgirl101

Junior Member
what a beutiful post indeed! I am very excited for ramadan and I have been fasting since I was 5 or 6 and it is truly a beutiful thing :SMILY149:
 
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