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    im a 19yr old guy, university student. Alhumdulillah i started practicing islam when i was 17. I trim my BEARD & I WEAR SHIRTS, T-SHIRTS N JEANS. in sahih bukhari hadith Prophet Muhammad (saw) ordered us to grow our beards. in Quran ALLAH says “He who obeys the Messenger has indeed obeyed Allah...” [4:80]

    now i like to keep my beard. i really want to but some how im not able to do it. like i make intension to keep a beard n wear clothes according to sunnah. then after 1 day or 2 i come back to my previous situation. (trim my beard n wear jeans n shirts) i really want to look like MUSLIM cuz im a MUSLIM.
    when i see other students im like atleast im better then them. its like i want to reach top of the mountain but its slippery, i climb 25% then comes down.

    i realy want to keep my beard n dress according to sunnah, but i really dont know wats happening with me. anybody advice me wat should i do.

    JAZKALLAH KHAIR
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    I am so happy Ya Akhi that you wish to look like proper muslims Alhamdolillah. Just keep on praying to be on Sunnah of the Holy Prophet Muhammad PBUH. I would like to suggest you to listen to Dr. Zakir Naik's video on Muslim dressing.
    Think that when you dress up like Kufars you are promoting their way of life and when you dress up like muslims then you promote muslim culture and Sunnah. When you will be able to see the difference then you would be proud to be look like muslims and not shy of it. May Allah make it easy for you Ameen

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    Salam Aleikum Brother

    I am from Brazil, i am new muslim. I was reading about the Islam some years ago just for curisosity. Some Months ago i knew in orkut some muslins from Brasil and other places in the World. So i received some books from Islamic Center in Egipt. Before it i was depress, confusy like you are now, for various reasons. But Reading about the Islam, the wonderfull is we can live a good Deen, have a strong Umaah, forget all the things that prevented us to form the Prayers and all the things concerning to Islam. Its no easy, i know, when our friends do not undrstand us, and laugh of us because use beard , or for some clothes we used. But we are not here to be eqaul everybody. The true happines is no make things we can see in television or in teh fashion world. All this ilusions are handling mechanism on young people to buy products in the market. We are cahnging products of this products. Thats the world where we live. Look inside yourself and ask yourself what really makes you happy. I know, if you are muslim you nkow Allah is the best for us, love to allah and how to live a Muslim to Allah, this is Deen, a a way of life that covers all areas of our lives. I confess I regret to have taken me to strive to be a good muslim and advise you to work without fear, to be better. Listen to your heart. Perform Salat, talk to allah Taala, and only worry about what Allah thinks about you.
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    Assalamu Alaikum

    :salam2: ,
    Akhi you have to go step by step. Yes i know we want to get/ attain the position we see of our learned brothers as soon as possible, but let me tell you they have achieved that after a lot of struggle and keeping their patience with their struggle.

    Inshallah you will reach at the top of the mountain but you have to take it step by step and be firm with every step you take. It shouldn't be that you take more than a step and again slip back to a step back to where you were. Inshallah make firm intentions and ask ALLAH SWT to help you. Inshallah it will help you.

    Let me tell you since i was 17 i wanted to have beard but everytime after two weeks it was so irritated that i removed it. But Alhamdulillah i asked ALLAH SWT to help me in this and now i have a full bearded Alhamdulillah. Now my intention is to have one fisted beard. Inshallah i'm trying for it.

    May ALLAH SWT make it easy for all of us to follow HIS deen. Ameen.

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    Al-Hamdu lillahi Rabbil-'Aalamin :)
    NOW I HAV A FULL BEARD :wavyarms:
    it was really hard for me to stop trimming my beard but ALLAH made it easy now :)
    at the masjid everybody like my beard :) :jumpclap:
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    Subhana'Allah!!! You see how close Allah is to you. You wanted to keep the beard, and Allah granted you this.

    Surley Allah is listening, and He never leeaves a prayer unanswered. Glory be to Allah, all praise is for Allah.

    I am very happy for you akhi, keep it up!! I pray Allah blesses your soul with al Firadausal A'la, and you are given the best clothes in jannah. Aameen!!!
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    mashallah :D so glad to hear that bro :)
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    sister.. wallahi , u made me cry.... May allah swt forgive our sins and grant us jaanat ul firdous ameen”
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    wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brother

    Yeah it happens. But why? Due to many reasons.

    The top on the reasons are because they are not careful about 5 Regular Prayers. Try to be strong in this step first brother. Ask for yourself about it.

    If you are good in it, then the next is: do all the deeds ONLY for the sake of Allah. Never let Shatan have any power over you. Do it sincerely.

    These are two most important from all.

    Also brother Recite this Du'a whenever you pray, and in other times too.

    Allahumma Ya Muqallibul Quloob. Thabbit Qalbee 'Alaa Deenik.

    (O Allah! Changer of the hearts! Keep my heart steadfast in your Religion.)

    wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
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    :jazaak: ...باركالله فيك
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    If you are good and true in you heart,God will favor you.But be modest in everything and dont compare urself with others, cos you are "you".or is it not?
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    :salam2: akhi!

    Good job! :)

    may Allah help you each and every step of the way.

    Wassalaam.
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