Role Model ?

[islamisthesolution]

:salam2:
i am on a hurry forgive me because its only six minutes left for al fajr prayer

so may question
someone told me that male muslim should take rasulAllah s.a.w as a role model

but females should take the mothers of believers (prophets wives) as arole models not rasulAllah s.a.w

because male should take male role models
and female should take female rol models

well is this right ?

hope you can answer me inshAllah
salaam alikom

 

[Robab]

its right

yes the role model of Mohammand (saw)for men and the role model of His wives for muslim women.

 

[islamisthesolution]

"Ye have in the messenger of God a good example for those who hope [to meet] God and the lasting day and remember God much." (33:21) This verse addresses women as well as men. In fact, it addresses all humanity.

That's not to say that the mothers of the believers are not role models. They are. Especially as wives and mothers. What better role model of a wife has there ever been than Lady Khadeeja, may God have been pleased with her. The disciples (Sahaaba) and their successors (Taabi`een) and the rest of our good ancestors (as-Salaf as-Saalih) are role models too. But the prophet, peace be upon him is the foremost role model for all.

The prophet peace be upon him said, "Take half your religion from this little red-faced one" hinting at `Aa'isha, may God have been pleased with her. He also said, "My companions are like stars: whomever of them you follow you will be guided."

jazaka Allahu khyran kathiran brother

now i will explain what happenend
when i said to him that my role model is rasulAllahhe said when you take a role model you imitate him\her in everything can you dress like him p.b.u.h can you do stuff only men can do it ?
i said of course no
he said then in this time you should imitate his wives because you can do like them and they learned from rasulAllah and those may Allah be pleased with them who you should imitat them and take as a role model .and that made me really confused .

BTW he is one of my students but he has knowledge or as it appears so sometimes he take to me a bout islam and its different aspects .

thanks for this verse i totally forgot to tell him about it "Ye have in the messenger of God a good example for those who hope [to meet] God and the lasting day and remember God much."
now i guess you says everything and illustrates the right answer
jazaka Allahu khyran kathiran wa barak Allahu feek
May Allahu rewrad us all with jannat al ferdous

 

[sazk]

aoa,

as a wife's role, a muslimah should take the example of Lady Khadeejah and others (RA).
as an insaan on a whole, there was no one more merciful than Rasul Allah (SAWS), no one more caring and kind and well mannered and patient and smiling and devoted and... well this list can go on and on

 

[zainab bala]

The best example is the Prophet and his wives (may Allah be pleased with all of them)

 

[Asja]

The best example is the Prophet and his wives (may Allah be pleased with all of them)

Assalamu Allaicomu dear sister

Thank you for sharing this very interesting and usefull thread Mashallah.

I have red answers above and I need to say that I dissagree with some of them.


The best examle for all of us is our beloved Prophet Mohammed s.a.w.s.,and the best four women in Islam,Hazrat Maryam,Hazrat Asiya,Hazrat Khadiya and hazrat Fatima(may Allah be pleaseed with them).And after for me my beloved mother.


May Allah bless you