Shocking Experience

[Albint_Almuslima]

AsalamAlakum,

Today I went with my mother to give our condolences to her friend because her aunt had just passed away. While we were there we met this young lady with two kids and her grandmother(mothersmom). The lady’s baby daughter kept crying and crying, however,
the mother just left her there and did not even do anything to calm her baby. So my mom asked her if her grandmother helps her raise the kids, u know what she replied? She said, She does not help me I force her to take care of them. She also said , Why is her grandmother still doing alive if she’s not going to take her kids. The lady actually has her 2 year old son living with the grandmother. How can u have a little baby living with a mother who no one knows can die any minute.

Throughout the whole time that we were there the lady was talking So much B.S about her grandma. She was yelling at her infront of us and talking Horrible about her to the point that she made her grandma look like a slut (istagfirAllahAlatheem) .

Where is Islam? Where is mercy? Ween Al-RAHMAh?

Where are the words of the Prophet peace and Blessings be upon him which say,

"He is not of us who has no compassion for our little ones and does not honour our old ones " ( AbuDawud, Tirmidhi )

"Abusing a Muslim is sinful, and fighting (makingwar, qital) with him is (tantamountto) kufr." ( Bukhari, Muslim )

She is abusing her grandmother and Molesting her freedom and rights from her.

The Prophet peace and blessings be upon him also said the following:

"Fear God wherever you are; let an evil deed (be) followed by a good deed so that you blot it out; and be well-behaved towards people". ( Ahmad, Tirmidhi )

“Well behave towards people” How can u be well behaved towards people if ur not well behaved towards ur on flesh and blood.

"He who truly believes in Allah and the last Day, should speak good or keep silent". ( Bukhari, Muslim )
Haram Wallah Haram….
Based on my knowledge Allah never said to treat the elders in a ill matter.

I know that there are others who do this not only to their grandmothers but to their mothers, fathers, Mother-in-law, and father-in-law…. BUT WHY???????????? WHY???

Allah Said “Irhemu men fi alarth yarhemkum men fi alsama” (“Have mercy to those on earth, so you can get mercy from who is inthesky”)

Salam,

 

[OsMaN_93]

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[Shahzad]

yeah.. very hard to read sister

 

[Albint_Almuslima]

Asalam Alakum,

Sorry i noticed it and i edited it before ya got to post .... it was spaced when i wrote it, however when i submitted it it came out that way... But alhamdlillah its fixed now...

salam,

 

[palestine]

sister did you and your mother advice her? because it's never too late to show someoene what they're doing wrong. salam.

 

[Albint_Almuslima]

Asalam Alakum,

Yes we adviced her and so did all the ladies that were there. She didnt care, she said THan why is her grandma still alive, she got no husband, no kids, nothing.. so she should take care of my kids...

Wallah my mom almost fainted .. she couldnt believe how cruel people are...


salam,

 

[Albint_Almuslima]

Asalam Alakum,

(58) From Abu Sa'id al-Khudri ra : Rasulullah s.a.w said : "If one of you sees (something) bad, he should change it with his his hand; and if he is not capable of that, then with his tongue; and if he is not capable of that, then (he should detest) it with his heart; and that is the weakest faith". ( Muslim )

salam,

 

[OsMaN_93]

wow!!!shocking!! is that old lady her grandma, or her husband's ?
:salam2:

 

[Tru3m0sl3m]

Assalamoalaikum,
When there's no knowledge of hadeeth and quran at home and the ppl are busy importing B.S. ideas from the idiot box this is what happens..
My lovely grandmother who's happened to be a little weak in making decisions, she's not that smart.. She tells me that all the time.. I've got an aunt who acts no less than shaitaan(Astagfirullah) .. My granny and the youngest aunt live in that house rest have their own house.. So mainly because of that.. Instead of asking Allah(swt) for improving her life. She's there torturing my granny and no one says anything to her. She curses, yells and sometimes beat her and the kids the hell out of them.. Couple of days back granny stayed at our house and she was crying and telling me everything.. I told her 'sabar kar' the most important thing is jannah, pleasing Allah(swt). I told my mum and other aunt's to make her stop.. They said if they utter a word she'll go jump into the well! ... Sorry for bringing out family issues out here.. NOW WHERE'S ISLAM? IS THIS WHAT OUR PROPHET MUHAMMED (P.B.U.H) TOLD US TO DO ?
... Sorry again..

 

[shari]

:salam2:

Its scary