sinning during ramadan

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islamdbest

New Member
salam, I am very dpressed now because I have sinned a day ago...It seems my iman is at its lowest levl. I am full of guilt why i did it. I am a person who cannot control my lust. I am afraid if my amal 9 days ago has been of no use because of doing evil things. sinning seems to be part of my life. When my lust attacks me, my body trembles and unconfortabble until i do it which is then followed by remorse. this occurs to me 5 years now.. it is a cycle of faith, sinning and remorse. I tried to be religious but the more i get religous the more my evil desire overcomes me. When my lusts comes, i respond directly to it until i did it. It seems i am slave of my lust. I am afraid of getting illnesses due to my disease. need advise ple. I wnna die but cannot do it since if i do i am sure i will go directly to the fire because of my big sin.
thank you.
 
palestine

palestine

Servant of Allah
brother, no one is PERFECT. Every servant of Allah is a sinner, but we should repent as often as we can. akhi, we are the problem. we've convinced ourselves that we cannot defeat shaytan so we become depressed and sad and lose hope. remember akhi that shaytan is your enemy, and the most important jihad is jihadu nafs( struggling against your soul). your lusts and desires are part of jihadu nafs, fight against your desires and lusts. and keep the word "murder" or suicide away from your mind. Akhi reform and revive yourself, when you fall get back on your feet again. keep doing this until you achieve your way to jannah. trust me brother, i've felt this way for so long as well. but alhamdulillah since two weeks ago i seem to be doing fine. when you're about to commit the sin, think twice. ask yourself of what benefit it is. if this is sexual desire brother, get married. that's a solution. also watch these videos.

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Almeftah

Almeftah

Junior Member
islamdbest said:
salam, I am very dpressed now because I have sinned a day ago...It seems my iman is at its lowest levl. I am full of guilt why i did it. I am a person who cannot control my lust. I am afraid if my amal 9 days ago has been of no use because of doing evil things. sinning seems to be part of my life. When my lust attacks me, my body trembles and unconfortabble until i do it which is then followed by remorse. this occurs to me 5 years now.. it is a cycle of faith, sinning and remorse. I tried to be religious but the more i get religous the more my evil desire overcomes me. When my lusts comes, i respond directly to it until i did it. It seems i am slave of my lust. I am afraid of getting illnesses due to my disease. need advise ple. I wnna die but cannot do it since if i do i am sure i will go directly to the fire because of my big sin.
thank you.
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(39:53) Say: "O 'Ibâdî (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allâh, verily Allâh forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful[]

As long as you repent to Allah everytime you commit a sin, Then you still have a chance that Allah will forgive you.

To despair of the Mercy of Allâh is also a sin, Pray to Allah and ask him to take away ur lust.. May that help you relieve.

Every time you think about doing it, Act angry and without moving ur lips tell yourself "NO, I won't do it", let it come out deep from ur stomach, as if ur son or friend is about to sin and ur trying to stop him with anger.
works for me sometimes, hope it does for u.
 
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Zafran

Muslim Brother
salaam

Allah is all forgiving and all merciful as all the others have said. This Quranic quote may help you.

003.014 Beautified for mankind is love of the joys (that come) from women and offspring; and stored-up heaps of gold and silver, and horses branded (with their mark), and cattle and land. That is comfort of the life of the world. Allah! With Him is a more excellent abode.

003.015 Say: Shall I inform you of something better than that ? For those who keep from evil, with their Lord, are Gardens underneath which rivers flow wherein they will abide, and pure companions, and contentment from Allah. Allah is Seer of His bondmen,
003.016 Those who say: Our Lord! Lo! we believe. So forgive us our sins and guard us from the punishment of Fire;

END QURAN TRANSLATION OF THE MEANING

source - http://www.islam101.com/quran/QTP/QTP003.htm

Picthall Translation.

May Allah make your test easier.

Peace
 
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