Assalamualaikum
I have a personal question and I would like some tips from my Muslim brothers and sisters.
My fiance smokes cigarettes which I had never liked, but I fell in love with him for many other reasons including his strong faith. Regarding his smoking, he has stated that he has no intention to quit. It upsets me but I understand because quitting is a habit very difficult to stop especially for very strong smokers. I think my aim is to help him realise by himself that smoking is dangerous to his health but his reply is always "if i'm fated to die, i would die because Allah wills it, whether i die through smoking or any other way. others who dont smoke also fall sick and die."
Is there any way I can help him realise quitting smoking is really very important for his health? Or is there any dua I can make for him to quit?
Appreciate all your replies and suggestions.
I have a personal question and I would like some tips from my Muslim brothers and sisters.
My fiance smokes cigarettes which I had never liked, but I fell in love with him for many other reasons including his strong faith. Regarding his smoking, he has stated that he has no intention to quit. It upsets me but I understand because quitting is a habit very difficult to stop especially for very strong smokers. I think my aim is to help him realise by himself that smoking is dangerous to his health but his reply is always "if i'm fated to die, i would die because Allah wills it, whether i die through smoking or any other way. others who dont smoke also fall sick and die."
Is there any way I can help him realise quitting smoking is really very important for his health? Or is there any dua I can make for him to quit?
Appreciate all your replies and suggestions.