Greek_Rose_2005
Junior Member
Asalam alikoum brothers and sisters,
my question to you all ...i believe it is haram but i want need a ruling ...like one my so called muslim friends she keeps using extremely offensive language to me... I dont want to say the words here but imagine a sailor then add 10x to it...I have asked her to please not use the language with me as i find it offensive and she told me in Egypt if i said that to someone its an extreme insult and she saying only because im american she will forgive me...i feel like she is insulting me to my very face...and i told her the reason i ask her that bad language makes me nervous that its hated by Allah which she told me that a friend should not tell a friend to change something in them, however i a=disagree i think if someone is going against islam in some manners that a responsible friend will be the one who says something and tries to let them see that its bad...really her language making me very uncomfortable...
I am sorry to say this as I am a new muslim but from the muslims I have seen so far having far worse language then my christian friends...I never ever had a friend who used the words that she has...
what is the ruling on this? is it haram? do i have right to ask her not to swear in front of me as i find it offensive..
as she says im not a friend unless I accept her good and bad and she told me she is not going to change for me...and i told her i feel sad from that as if i was doing something that i know bother her and is bad i would do my best to stop doing it...
pls someone help me im almost crying...I dont know what to do with my friendship this girl has been putting a lot of confusion in my mind and heart as she tells me that its ok to celebrate holidays and even when i have showed her the meaning of it she says shes going to celebrate it anyways..and she keeps telling me i dont know islam she is born muslim and she knows more and i been only few months...Im not trying to show her up but when i feel she is doing something bad i trying to in a gentle way let her see..
i need advice pls pls everyone... I have read the quran but i dont remember all the exact places its talk about language and swearing pls help me..
my question to you all ...i believe it is haram but i want need a ruling ...like one my so called muslim friends she keeps using extremely offensive language to me... I dont want to say the words here but imagine a sailor then add 10x to it...I have asked her to please not use the language with me as i find it offensive and she told me in Egypt if i said that to someone its an extreme insult and she saying only because im american she will forgive me...i feel like she is insulting me to my very face...and i told her the reason i ask her that bad language makes me nervous that its hated by Allah which she told me that a friend should not tell a friend to change something in them, however i a=disagree i think if someone is going against islam in some manners that a responsible friend will be the one who says something and tries to let them see that its bad...really her language making me very uncomfortable...
I am sorry to say this as I am a new muslim but from the muslims I have seen so far having far worse language then my christian friends...I never ever had a friend who used the words that she has...
what is the ruling on this? is it haram? do i have right to ask her not to swear in front of me as i find it offensive..
as she says im not a friend unless I accept her good and bad and she told me she is not going to change for me...and i told her i feel sad from that as if i was doing something that i know bother her and is bad i would do my best to stop doing it...
pls someone help me im almost crying...I dont know what to do with my friendship this girl has been putting a lot of confusion in my mind and heart as she tells me that its ok to celebrate holidays and even when i have showed her the meaning of it she says shes going to celebrate it anyways..and she keeps telling me i dont know islam she is born muslim and she knows more and i been only few months...Im not trying to show her up but when i feel she is doing something bad i trying to in a gentle way let her see..
i need advice pls pls everyone... I have read the quran but i dont remember all the exact places its talk about language and swearing pls help me..