The Rulings of Hijab (Tafseer Ibn Katheer, Raheemahullah)

Abdul Hasib

Student of Knowledge
The Rulings of Hijab

The main Purpose is educate all of us (especially any non Muslims) about the Hijab, which is one of the Commandments of Allah Ta Alla, to whom Belongs all Gratitude and Praise, and whom is the ONLY Lord and God that ever existed and that has ruled over the Heavens, the Earth, and all that he has created.

The Hijab is one of the beautiful signs and commandments of Allah Ta Alla, and with the Hijab, Allah Ta Alla decreed it so that it can aid us Muslims and Muslimahs into perfection, in our character, and our personality, and Rasulallah (SAW) also explained to us (from this Hadith):

Abdullah ibn 'Umar said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, passed by one of the men of the Ansar who was warning his brother about being too modest. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Leave him. Modesty is part of belief."

Sahih al Bukhari (Chapter of Eman, Beleif)



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This is a command from Allah to the believing women, and jealousy[1] on His part over the wives of His believing servants. It is also to distinguish the believing women from the women of the Jahiliyyah and the deeds of the pagan women. The reason for the revelation of this Ayah was mentioned by Muqatil bin Hayyan, when he said: "We heard and Allah knows best -- that Jabir bin `Abdullah Al-Ansari narrated that Asma' bint Murshidah was in a house of hers in Bani Harithah, and the women started coming in to her without lower garments so that the anklets on their feet could be seen, along with their chests and forelocks. Asma' said: `How ugly this is!' Then Allah revealed:

«وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَـتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَـرِهِنَّ»

[1] By the word "jealousy," Ibn Katheer (Raheemahullah) did not mean (nor do any of the other scholars mean) by their saying, "From Allah's jealousy on His part over the believing women," that Allah Ta Alla envies the Status of his Beloved Servants of the Muslimah, but that He (by his Majesty), feels a great Love in Protecting his Beleving Servants amongst the Muslimahs, because one meaning of jealousy is having a "protectiveness" (Source: Answers.Com) to those whom the Jealousy is too, and Allah Ta Alla has an extreme Protectiveness of His Beloved Muslimahs, that they can be protected.

(And tell the believing women to lower their gaze...)'' And Allah says:

«وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَـتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَـرِهِنَّ»

(And tell the believing women to lower their gaze) meaning, from that which Allah has forbidden them to look at, apart from their husbands. [Some] scholars said that it is permissible for women to look at non-Mahram men without desire, as it was recorded in the Sahih that the Messenger of Allah was watching the Ethiopians playing with spears in the Masjid on the day of `Id, and `A'ishah the Mother of the believers was watching them from behind him and he was concealing her from them, until she got bored and went away.

«وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ»

(and protect their private parts). Sa`id bin Jubayr said: "From immoral actions.'' Abu Al-`Aliyah said: "Every Ayah of the Qur'an in which protecting the private parts is mentioned means protecting them from Zina, except for this Ayah --

«وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ»

(and protect their private parts), which means protecting them from being seen by anybody.''

«وَلاَ يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلاَّ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا»

(and not to show off their adornment except that which is apparent,) means, they should not show anything of their adornment to non-Mahram men except for whatever it is impossible to hide. Ibn Mas`ud said: "Such as clothes and outer garments,'' Meaning what the Arab women used to wear of the veil which covered their clothes and whatever showed from underneath the outer garment. There is no blame on her for this, because this is something that she cannot conceal. Similar to that is what appears of her lower garment and what she cannot conceal. Al-Hasan, Ibn Sirin, Abu Al-Jawza', Ibrahim An-Nakha`i and others also had the same view as Ibn Mas`ud.

[وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَى جُيُوبِهِنَّ]

(and to draw their veils all over their Juyub) means that they should wear the outer garment in such a way as to cover their chests and ribs, so that they will be different from the women of the Jahiliyyah, who did not do that but would pass in front of men with their chests completely uncovered, and with their necks, forelocks, hair and earrings uncovered. So Allah commanded the believing women to cover themselves, as He says:

[يأَيُّهَا النَّبِىُّ قُل لاًّزْوَجِكَ وَبَنَـتِكَ وَنِسَآءِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِن جَلَـبِيبِهِنَّ ذلِكَ أَدْنَى أَن يُعْرَفْنَ فَلاَ يُؤْذَيْنَ]

(O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks all over their bodies. That will be better, that they should be known, so as not to be annoyed) [33:59] And in this noble Ayah He said:

[وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَى جُيُوبِهِنَّ]

(and to draw their (Khumur) veils all over their Juyub) Khumur (veils) is the plural of Khimar, which means something that covers, and is what is used to cover the head. This is what is known among the people as a veil. Sa`id bin Jubayr said:

[وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ]

(and to draw) means to pull it around and tie it securely.

[بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَى جُيُوبِهِنَّ]

(their veils all over their Juyub) means, over their necks and chests so that nothing can be seen of them. Al-Bukhari recorded that `A'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, said: "May Allah have mercy on the women of the early emigrants. When Allah revealed the Ayah:

[وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَى جُيُوبِهِنَّ]
(and to draw their veils all over their Juyub), they tore their aprons and Akhtamar themselves with them.'' He also narrated from Safiyyah bint Shaybah that `A'ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, used to say: "When this Ayah:

[وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَى جُيُوبِهِنَّ]
(and to draw their veils all over their Juyub) was revealed, they took their Izars (waistsheets) and tore them at the edges, and Akhtamar themselves with them.''

[وَلاَ يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلاَّ لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ ءَابَآئِهِنَّ أَوْ ءَابَآءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَآئِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَآءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِى إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِى أَخَوَتِهِنَّ]

(and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's fathers, or their sons, or their husband's sons, or their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons,) All of these are a woman's close relatives whom she can never marry (Mahram) and it is permissible for her to show her adornments to them, but without making a wanton display of herself. Ibn Al-Mundhir recorded that `Ikrimah commented on this Ayah,

«وَلاَ يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلاَّ لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ ءَابَآئِهِنَّ أَوْ ءَابَآءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ»

(and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's fathers...), "The paternal uncle and maternal uncle are not mentioned here, because they may describe a woman to their sons, so a woman should not remove her Khimar in front of her paternal or maternal uncle.''With regard to the husband, all of this is for his sake, so she should try her best when adorning herself for him, unlike the way she should appear in front of others.

«أَوْ نِسَآئِهِنَّ»

(or their women,) this means that she may also wear her adornment in front of other Muslim women, but not in front of the women of Ahl Adh-Dhimmah (Jewish and Christian women), lest they describe her to their husbands. This is prohibited for all women, but more so in the case of the women of Ahl Adh-Dhimmah, because there is nothing to prevent them from doing that, but Muslim women know that it is unlawful and so, would be deterred from doing it. The Messenger of Allah said:

«لَا تُبَاشِرِ الْمَرْأَةُ الْمَرْأَةَ فَتَنْعَتَهَا لِزَوْجِهَا كَأَنَّهُ يَنْظُرُ إِلَيْهَا»

(No woman should describe another woman to her husband so that it is as if he is looking at her.) It was recorded in the Two Sahihs from Ibn Mas`ud.

«أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَـنُهُنَّ»

(or their right hand possessions. ) Ibn Jarir said, "This means from among the women of the idolators. It is permissible for a Muslim woman to reveal her adornment before such a woman, even if she is an idolatress, because she is her slave-girl.'' This was also the view of Sa`id bin Al-Musayyib. Allah says;

«أَوِ التَّـبِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُوْلِى الإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ»
(Tabi`in among men who do not have desire,) such as hired servants and followers who are not at the same level as the woman and are feeble-minded and have no interest in or desire for women. Ibn `Abbas said, "This is the kind of person who has no desire.'' `Ikrimah said, "This is the hermaphrodite, who does not experience erections.'' This was also the view of others among the Salaf. It was narrated in the Sahih from `A'ishah that a hermaphrodite, used to enter upon the family of the Messenger of Allah and they used to consider him as one of those who do not have desire, but then the Messenger of Allah came in when he was describing a woman with four rolls of fat in front and eight behind. The Messenger of Allah said,

«أَلَا أَرَى هَذَا يَعْلَمُ مَا هَهُنَا لَا يَدْخُلَنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ»
(Lo! I think this person knows what is they are; he should never enter upon you.) He expelled him, and he stayed in Al-Bayda' and only came on Fridays to get food.

«أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُواْ عَلَى عَوْرَتِ النِّسَآ»

(or children who are not aware of the nakedness of women. ) Because they are so young they do not understand anything about women or their `Awrah or their soft speech or their enticing ways of walking and moving. If a child is small and does not understand that, there is nothing wrong with him entering upon women, but if he is an adolescent or approaching adolescence, so that he knows and understands these things, and can make a distinction between who is beautiful and who is not, then he should not enter upon women. It was recorded in the Two Sahihs that the Messenger of Allah said:

«إِيَّاكُمْ وَالدُّخُولَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ»

(Avoid entering upon women.) It was said, "O Messenger of Allah, what do you think about the male in-laws'' He said:

«الْحَمْوُ: الْمَوْتُ»

(The male in-law is death. Note here: By this, Muhammad (SAW) just meant that the male in-law of the women are one of those men who are STRICTLY forbidden to enter upon the place of women (and in this case, this also includes his sister in Law), and the reason why Muhammad (SAW) used the word "death," to describe a male in-law, was because he described a male in-law as being someone who the sister (the women) should use extreme caution against, because it is known that male in-law DO tend to go to places where their sister in-laws occupy, because of an evil that exists in their hearts (but not in the hearts of all men), it's just a sign for a women to use extreme caution to not be around the male in-law, because he's considered "part of her family," but not blood related, only marriage related.

And this also supports the fact that many males also DO tend to have a feeling of jealousy towards their women in-law).


"Oh Allah! Purify our Hearts from all Evil, and make us to be of those who Love no one more than You, and Your Rasul (after yourself), and have us to attain Rightousness and be of those whom You Love, and of who You are pleased with! Ameen Yaa Zaal Jalaaly Waal Ekraam!"



To be Continued Soon, Inshallah....
 

ruki4eva

Muslim Unity...
:salam2:
:ma: jazakallah :)
that was really nice reading it
all da way thru
May Allah swt bless u for it inshallah
take care
:wasalam:
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Assalamu Allaicomu dear brother Abdul Hasib.

Mashallah for your very beautiful and usefull thread dear brother.

Yazzak Allah dear brother for sharing with us,and may Allah bless you and reword you.Ameen.

:wasalam:

Your sister in Islam,Asiya
 

Abdul Hasib

Student of Knowledge
Assalamu Alykum Warahmatullahe Wabarakaathuh my dear respected sisters of Islam, Wa Iyyakum to all of your duas, may Allah Ta Alla also bless all of you, protect you from evil and harm, and may he protect you all from ever feeling any pain in your hearts, and from any pain in this Duniyah, and the Akirah, Ameen!

LoL do you know what I found pretty funny? To tell you the truth, I hadn't even read this article from Tafsir Ibn Katheer, I just read what it said at the top (about Allah Ta Alla having a jealousy for the Beleiving Muslimahs, who are his Beloved Servants :)), and about Muhammad (SAW) describing the in-law as "death" (to which I commented and made footnotes on both those issues, because Ibn Katheer (Raheemahullah) explained the meanings of the Ayats, but I just explained the meaning of his words that he used, because it could make all of us get confused and puzzled, LoL).

And when I came across this:

Tafsir Ibn Katheer (RA) said:
(and to draw their veils all over their Juyub) means that they should wear the outer garment in such a way as to cover their chests and ribs...

I felt shocked, because I (to start with, got creeped out about hearing what the women of Jahliyyah would do (EXCESSIVELY insane, Mashallah, with Islam, Allah Ta Alla made me change my mind when I use to generalize (from a LONG time ago, before I know any of you on this site, from like, two years ago+) into thinking that all women were "stupid" and "show off idiots," because after I came back to Islam, Allah Ta Alla, and made Tawbah from allowing myself to get into the Fitnah and doing Haram things, I've started to learn that all women aren't "stupid" "show off idiots," and that it's WRONG to blame all women just for the actions of a few, and there are those kind of women that I've came across who DO dress creepy ("sex heaven" as described by guys my age :rolleyes:), women who, if I was like before, I would have "oggled" at, but Mashallah, I've changed SO much, that I just look down in fear (because I'm SCARED of those Haram things, because I just shake when I'm around Fitnah, guess it's because I've hated beeing such a bad person like I was before, that I've started to feel scared around those things because it would remind me of when I was disobediant to Allah Ta Alla :(), but Mashallah, I speak kindly to them, smile to them, but I look down when they're around my or their backs are facing "some way" in my direction, but they don't mind, and see me as being respectful to them, because that's what Muhammad (SAW) taught, to be kind to the righteous Muslims, but also show Mercy and kindness to the sinners), but ANYWAY, like I was TRYING to say, LoL I always change my direction of my subject, LoL :wink:), like I've said, I felt shocked reading this, because I was in that kind of situation at school too last week.

It was a nice windy "Spring" day, and I've stopped having a fever and throat problems, so I was back in shape, and so I went to school in a white T-shirt, and a hooded jacket over it (and I also found my Kufi too! I was SO happy that I was able to go back to school with it on!), and (I hadn't considered this, but I lost A LOT of weight from my fever, so I no longer had a lot of fat around my neck, legs, or my torso), and so, I was in my Health class were my teacher was reviewing for a test that we would have about First Aid (and in which I was trying to sneak in my homework that was due from my other classes so that I could complete them, LoL), and so, I started to feel like I wanted to feel a bit more colder, and so I unzipped my jacket, my T-shirt visible.

And so anyway, after completing parts of my homework from my other class (and also jotting down notes for the test), I just leaned my head back and stretched in my seat, and stretched my arms out.

A girl who had turned around to talk to her friend saw me and her eyes opened wide, and she said, "Aww, your ribs show!" And before I knew it (to my utter shock), all the girls in the class had their attention on me and were looking at me, and as soon as they all turned their gaze to me, I quickly sat straight, took the side of my jacket, and put it over my chest and torso, so that they can't see it, and so some of them must've felt that I was "too shy" to let them see my ribs, that I heard some girls "Aww-ing" that I didn't "want to share," and my friend that was sitting right next to me turned to me and started smiling (that girls had their attention on me :rolleyes:), and I felt weird, because that was like the FIRST time that girls have ever felt a "desire" to look at me and "adored" my appearance.

But I found it very weird that girls also feel excited seeing a guy's ribs? :D Not to also mention the fact that I'm skinny actually (not TERRIBLY skinny, just skinny that my neck shows well, and, so do my collar bones :D).

But anyway, I know that I need A LOT of help from my Muslim sisters on this site, LoL. :) So sisters, teach me about being Modest, because I know a lot of you have experianced this for a longer time, and actually got use to it.

I also understand the way girls actually feel too, it's just a Waswasa that makes you want to "not look ugly" when there are guys around (for me, it was girls and my young teachers :rolleyes:), and also starts whispering into your head to make you get "excited" when there are guys around (to me, it was when there were girls or my young teachers around), and the Waswasa just increases into whispering for you to get their attention, and then "your beauty" is displayed for them to see, yeah, as for that, I've been in those situations, but Mashallah, Allah Ta Alla reminded me about modesty, and about good character and personality, that I've started to check my heart and mind from any flaws, and when there were any (like in the case that I was in right now that I've described in this paragraph), I've fought those feelings, changed them, and made my intentions to be Pure and Modest, let myself look nice in appearance (but not excessively), just for Allah Ta Alla's Sake, so that I may Please Him, and be Rightoues. :)

And that in which he has helped me to do, and which he is once more, guiding me through, and that I hope, that all of you brothers and sisters (that want to strive into rightouesness) have been able to attain, but Verily, that Decision rests with Allah Ta Alla only. :)

So anyway, my talk is done for now, but anyway, I wanted to tell you sisters, that I really do start to feel shy when I'm around any of you. *looks down* Sister Asja, by Allah Ta Alla, I am not 21 years old (but 14, like how many brothers and sisters tried to tell you), but Wallahi, if I was, I would NOT ever talk to you, and you wouldn't ever hear me say anything in your presence, but a little. You have great character, Ya Baji. And that's why I'm happy that I'm 14 years old, and I'm a little kid (to like all of you sisters, LoL :D), because now as a little brother, I have a whole bunch of big sisters, like you, Sister Isra, Sister Ruki, and much more, as my role models, and as good examples to me, of what kind of person I should be, and what kind of person I should be like. :)

I feel honored to have you sisters around me, and Mashallah, all of you are older than me (and I like imagining that you're all taller than me too!) because, now I feel like I have big sisters who can encourage me to be better, and teach me MANY new things. :)

The brothers that I am with (like some brothers who I know that are Scholars, or someone like my knowledgable Pushto-ish Uncle (Pakistani actually, from Karachi. Light skin, green eyes, LoL :D), or brothers who have a lot of knowledge on this site) DO tend to help me gain a lot of knowledge, that, Mashallah, I am able to reflect upon, but being around a lot of you sisters on this site has, not allowed me to gain a lot of knowledge, but a better UNDERSTANDING of things, which also aides me and goes hand in hand with the knowledge that Allah Ta Alla has bestowed me with.

A last favor that I want right now before I leave (from this forum for maybe, tonight) is that, I feel as if I have done something wrong. Actually, I KNOW I have done something wrong, and because of that, I cried in Tawbah to my Lord Allah Ta Alla throughout the early hours after midnight in forgiveness, and a Hope that He, my Lord, may Forgive me, Admit me into his Mercy, to not be Angry or Displeased with what I have done, Nor to Mind for my mistake, and I've shed many tears today and cried for him to always Love me despite my mistakes, and now, because I feel so upset of what I have done, I've made a Vow to myself and an Intention that I'll start to do Nafl deeds again, follow all of the Sunnahs, reflect over the Life and the Seerah of my Dear Rasulallah (SAW), and that I will try to start attaining good character again (because I've slacked off after a while), as a way that I will be able to attain Rightouesness, and be even BETTER than who I was before. :(

I feel upset over what I have done, so much, that I don't want to remember what it was, because I just start to feel like as if I want to break into tears, go into Sajdah, and never leave my position until I have felt that I have finally made it up to Allah Ta Alla. :(

But anway, to all of you sisters, me, and also my brothers (who want to attain rightouesness), May Allah Ta Alla beautify us in our Appearance, more ever in our Character, More than that in our Piety and Eman, and More ever than all of that, in our Love to Him and His Rasul, and may he give us all a Life of Beauty, Bliss, Loveliness, Tranquility, Good Fortune, Happiness, Serenity. For the rest of our Time in this Duniyah, till the time we depart in the Akirah. Ameen Ya Zaal Jalaaly Waal Ekraam!
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
So anyway, my talk is done for now, but anyway, I wanted to tell you sisters, that I really do start to feel shy when I'm around any of you. *looks down* Sister Asja, by Allah Ta Alla, I am not 21 years old (but 14, like how many brothers and sisters tried to tell you), but Wallahi, if I was, I would NOT ever talk to you, and you wouldn't ever hear me say anything in your presence, but a little. You have great character, Ya Baji. And that's why I'm happy that I'm 14 years old, and I'm a little kid (to like all of you sisters, LoL :D), because now as a little brother, I have a whole bunch of big sisters, like you, Sister Isra, Sister Ruki, and much more, as my role models, and as good examples to me, of what kind of person I should be, and what kind of person I should be like. :)

Assalamu Alaicum dear brother Abdul Hasib.

Thank you dear brother for your kind and nice words, not only for me but for all sisters Mashallah,but wallahi I do not deserve these words but I am sure other sisters do.Mashallah for all of them and for you brother We are more than honored to have brother like you and being able to help you on any way and Inshallah that you learn from of us all that is positive and beautiful and that with what Allah would be pleased.And Alhamdulillah dear brother we can also learn of loot from you Mashallah,and may Allah subhna we tela reword you.

Wallahi you made me blush of shame dear brother with your words:shymuslima1:I do not deseve so much,only Allah knows how much modest I am.

And I thought brother you are 21 Mashallah,because you wrote so.:)Allah knows the best.

May Allah bless you and keep you always,Ameen:tti_sister:

:wasalam:

Your sister in Islam,Asiya
 
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