Thinking too much about other people's belief/lives...

Peaceful3

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Assalam alakum

First of all, i have to say that i am living in a society that has been affected by secularism and what it brought. Therefore, lots of things are working according to secularism and people have been taught by secularism . You know whats secularism ? They dont like hijab, they dont like beard, they dont like shairah to be our law but their ID's, they are Muslims, they believe in Allah, maybe some of them pray daily prayers and so on...

For a while (especially in this year) i started thinking too much about other people around me.
Before, i didnt use to care too much about what they believe, how they act, if its wrong or right according to Islam. But lately even on bus or outside i think too much ''Is he a Muslim ? Does he confirm Islam ? Is he a secular person or an Islamic person ...'' And these thoughts keep going...

In one hand, i know that we shouldnt have good feelings about bad things in our society. Like there was a lady teacher in our class who seemed to be really nice towards students, but then in one class she was promoting drinkin alcahol ! After that i thought to myself, i shouldnt like such kind of people who promote evil.

Also about my relatives and about my neighbours who sometimes say stupid things about some parts of Islam (especially their ridicilious views about hijab and some other issues) i started worrying too much and i feel like i am not living in a Muslim society even though most people believe in Allah and they are not follower of any other religion and of course i dont know which of us will be in Jannah, maybe its me who will have the worst end !

As i said, before i didnt use to care too much, but lately i judge people according to their belief, rather than other things.

So i wonder, is there a really problem with me ? If there is a problem, how can i get over it inshallah ?
 
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