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28:55. And when they hear Al-Laghw (dirty, false, evil vain talk), they withdraw from it and say: "To us our deeds, and to you your deeds. Peace be to you. We seek not (the way of) the ignorant."
Salaam,
This is what I felt disheartening when dealing with the guy, some Muslims began using foul language and typing in all caps as if yelling. This was exactly the response he was looking for and it just served to fuel his fire. Fire doesn't last long in the presence of water. So when dealing with him I maintained my adaab and it paid off for a short while. (the thread was pulled just as he began asking real questions and using a humble demeanor)
Ironically I learned how to face angry and/or passionate people from my previous Rabbi. I swear I never saw that man raise his voice or blood pressure. He taught me that it is easy to defang your opponent with a gentle demeanor, because there is no weapon useful against intelligence and rationality. And I found that still true when dealing with that particular poster.
Wasalaam
~Sarah
He taught me that it is easy to defang your opponent with a gentle demeanor, because there is no weapon useful against intelligence and rationality.
well said sis
maybe thats what their religion teaches
:salam2:^^
"eye for an eye, and tooth for a tooth"
(dunno if anyone heard of this)
but thats how i think...
they come at us hard without mercy, we should go at them harder and without mercy.
the more your nice and kind the more confortable they become, and the more insults are thrown at us..
using a nice way to dawah , thats what I do TO THE PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LEARN.
but those close minded crazy idiots, they don't desserve 1 bit of the respect i have.
:salam2:
:salam2:^^
"eye for an eye, and tooth for a tooth"
(dunno if anyone heard of this)
but thats how i think...
they come at us hard without mercy, we should go at them harder and without mercy.
the more your nice and kind the more confortable they become, and the more insults are thrown at us..
using a nice way to dawah , thats what I do TO THE PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LEARN.
but those close minded crazy idiots, they don't desserve 1 bit of the respect i have.
:salam2:
i never said that islam says this..salam aleikum
No brother thats totally wrong
Islam means Peace and we have to show it ,by our words and by our actions ...Prophet,peace be upon him ,never showed hate towards anyone ,
and he is the best example to follow ,lets remember that
waaleikum salam
LOL.. we had a right go at this guy..sister shyhijabi i know i ruined the da'wah that should've been given to this boy(insulter), and i'd like to apologize to you because u put so much effort in trying to deal with him, that i completely wrecked it. but it was out of love for the deen- my blood boiled hearing what he was saying. sorry once again. salam.