Question: Waiting for your opinion

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    Hello brothers and sisters! I'm not converted to islam(unfortunately) because of my parents. They think i will be bad and things like that. I really like Islam (traditions,beliefs) but I can't convert :(
    What should I do?
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    Hi you can always convert, just keep it secret. If you believe in Islam from your heart, then you are already almost there.
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    MA Sha Allah brother. We pray for you. May Allah swt make it eassy for you and your family. Stay with us.
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    Salam alaykum

    You can do like many others whose are in your situation: say shahada but don´t tell about it to your parents yet. Let time goes, tell when you know it´s right time to tell (Are you still live at home with parents? So, when you are older, tell then.) By your behavior, show to them that Islam changed you better person; more rightfull, helpfull, honest.

    Don´t wait too long time to say shahada. It is the most important step you will take in your whole life. And remember that Allah knows already that you wish to become a muslim. Leave your problems to hands of Allah and let some time goes before you tell anyone about your new way of life (I mean Islam).

    I wish you the best luck and blessings from Allah. May He makes your path easy.
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    May almighty Allah help u . U trust on Allah n rely on him . We too make dua for ur Shahadha in sha allah .
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    What I should say to convert? It's an important sentence?
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    It's true, but it's a bit difficult to pray...
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    You mean shahada (testimony)?

    lā ʾilāha ʾillā-llāh, muḥammadun rasūlu-llāh
    There is no god but God, Muhammad is the messenger of God.
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    hi there , ask yourself , is it difficult to wake up early every morning , go to school , study for hours. it's a bit difficult isn't it ? but If you do it with love and determination , you will success in your studies , right ? so praying is the same ! well , you have to understand the difficulties and what you are required to do and everything will be fine ^^!
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    ^^ Propably he meant that difficulties of praying come if he has to keep being muslim as secret from his family and living with them.
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    Assalamu alaikum brother you already were a muslim because every child is born as a muslim later on it was your parents who made you a non beleiver.Brother if you beleive in your heart that there is no godbut Allah and prophet Mohammad is his messenger and servant and then requires verbal attestation of that. Start gaining knowledge about islam and practice Islam secretly and be nice to your parents more than you were earlier. We will you pray for you and for your parents too.Welcome to the religion of peace and love(Islam).
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    How to become a Muslim

    It is easy to become a Muslim. To become a Muslim one must simply pronounce the Shahaadatayn (Declaration of Faith) with sincerity and conviction.

    The Shahadah is the following :

    " Ash-hadu an laa ilaaha illaallaah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan-ar-rasool ullaah " (In Arabic)


    "I bear witness that there is no God worthy to be worshiped but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah." (Translation IN English)
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    Also here is a perfect website to learn praying through an animation with alot of languages.
    Don't say anything to your parents right now but at least Allah & your soul knows well that your Muslim.
    Inshallah step by step everyone will know so you started with us & later everyone will know.
    Congratulations my brother we're all happy for you :)

    http://www.howdoipray.com/howdoipray/Home/
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