abu'muhammad
Junior Member

what girls adopts :
When young and immature girls watches the people on T.V brought up in worldly wealth and lot money , then in their mind the lust for money develops.The girls makes those people their ideals . And ruins their life.The girls never in their imagination thinks for marrying the boy who has huge wealth,and that ultimately leads that they remain unmarry upto becoming old,cause what their ideals they will never get.
what boys adopt:
The boys also finds a suit for marraige and without any hard work,takes away the wealth of others by dowry (JAHEJ). And considers it halal.
If by this way their wishes do not get supplemented , they start doing by haram ways.That results to bribe,casino,theft, intoxication,kidnapping. those people then considers the sole goal to earn money and live luxurious life.
they don't have time for islaah. They consider joining salat and roza as waste of time (naaouzubillah). and haj -zakat becomes trouble for them. not all,living with simplicity is hard for them. this is the reason they do not attain peace-tranquility in life
may allah protect and guide the quoter.
lillahil hamd
