what you are?

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    saima abdullah my life iz 4 Allah

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    In the geometry of life, the axiom is "positive attitudes produce positive results." They make success more likely, failures less harmful, pleasures more frequent, and pain more bearable. Some people tend to bring warm sunshine wherever they go; others bring cold chills. What do you bring?
    To find out where you can improve, take an honest inventory of your predispositions, the attitude you're most likely to start with.
    • Are you generally optimistic or pessimistic?
    • Do you tend to assume the best or expect the worst of people?
    • Is your first instinct to be empathetic or judgmental?
    • Is your first instinct to be supportive or critical?
    • Do you send the message that you enjoy life or that you're barely enduring it?
    • Do you come across as the captain of your own ship or simply a passenger?
    Wherever you are on the positive-attitude spectrum, think how much better things could be if you were more consistently and self-consciously optimistic, empathetic, supportive, grateful, enthusiastic, hopeful, and cheerful.
    So why not resolve to think, act, and speak more positively about yourself, your family, your coworkers, and everyone else in your life?

    (Character Counts)
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    You can't always take everything positively. Like, for example you know something is bad for your health and you still take it positively and say no it won't do anything to me and eat/drink/take it. Well, that's not positive behaviour.

    Just like that, you know sometimes some people are hard to deal with and they're probably not a good company for you. You just have to beware of them and stay away from them as much as possible. This is a negative attitude towards them but it's overall a positive attitude towards your own self well being.

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