WHAT DID YOU FEEL WHEN YOU HAD YOUR FIRST BABY?

Sister S

Junior Member
:salam2:

I am married, but no kids yet. Inshallah in the future.

I was babysitting for one of my friends, who has a 3 yr old daughter.
My friend has started her daughter wearing the hijab, so she can get used to wearing it now. When she was at my house it was time for prayers and I told her it was time for Namaz, at first she didn't want to pray but then she stood beside me and did the actions. When she was doing the actions I felt really proud of her. When we finished praying she said Allah's happy with me isn't He? I said yes He is.

I cannot wait to have a daughter then i can teach her about hijab and how to pray.
 

nizar83

Junior Member
selemu aleikum,

ya ALLAH smehliena min el welliedeen!

i pray to allah that he will forgive us all from what we do bad towards our parents, and for what we forget to do good towards our parents !
 

abubaseer

tanzil.info
Staff member
We had our first baby few months back, not fully recovered from the feeling yet :)
To me the initial feeling was that I'm no more carefree bachelor I'm a family man now!
Because I had married a year back, and the feeling of being married was yet to sink in.

Also, it made me deeply think about the life of Dunyaa because within a two days of my sons broth, one of my relatives died...everyday many are born, many die...and life continues.
What is going remain is our good deeds and that is the bottomm-line.
 

s 091

Junior Member
assalum allaikum to all I would like to share my views on your question, I am a mother of one {he is 2 years old}. He is my angel my meaning in life. Yes he tests the patience of myself and my husband and times but that is what kids do. I was not married when I had my son although I had been with my partner for 4 years previous to that. {We only got married last week!!!!}. To explain the feelings of when you have your first child it is hard to do. As soon as you hold that beautiful little baby in your harms and stare at them for what seems like an eternity and then look into the eyes of your partner who you can see is full of love, an amazing feeling comes over you of a true love that you know can never broken. My son is my entire life I love him with all my life it really is unexpainable...
 

Mahzala

فَتَبَارَكَ اللَّهُ أَحْسَنُ الْخَالِقِينَ
Assalamualaikum

:bismillah1:

To start off with, this is such a nice thread.

I am not a mother, nor am I married. But I am an auntie, an auntie of seven beautiful children. Well, I wouldnt really count them all as children because my eldest nephew is older than me, only by six days though! I have two nieces, and five nephews, Alhamdulilah and Masha Allah! My Dear Brother's children are no longer with us, they have left this world and are now in the care of Allah Almighty. They are very pure, innocent and beautiful Shaheed's.

About my other niece and nephews, I love them. Although this thread is about the love of a mother and child, the love between an auntie and her nieces and nephews is quite close. There are times when they are naughty, interuptive and loud. Then there are times when they are open to any advice. There are times when they spill whatever remains inside them and they talk to you and trust you more than anyone they have ever known. There are times when they are hungry, sweaty, and times when they cuddle you out of appreciation and how much they admire you. Children are a beautiful blessing from the Almighty.

I haven't felt the love between a mother and a child but I certainly have seen it. It's amazing, it cannot be described in fancy little words.

Assalamualaikum
 

Mahzala

فَتَبَارَكَ اللَّهُ أَحْسَنُ الْخَالِقِينَ
Saif ud din - i am sure you will marry now and have babies and would be a lovely and caring mother as all sisters are here...... ( JK)


I also wonder why no brother had posted any comment.....

Assalamualaikum

:bismillah1:

If I am not mistaken, I remember Saifu Deen being a brother. My soureces: His public profile. So Brother A Kashmiri, I think you have to rephrase that to a caring "father". Also, you mention that no male has replied to this post, a male has actually started this thread!

:)

Assalamualaikum
 

Almeftah

Junior Member
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Unfortunately i did not get to feel the joy of having my first born son, because i had big issues with my ex-wife which lead to divorce.. May Allah forgive her.
But i am expecting a new baby Inshaallah with my current wife May Allah protect her, and i cant wait for that day to be the first to carry him/her. :)
 

Rivergirl

Junior Member
:salam2:
after reading all the beautiful messages, please all brothers and sisters pray for me and keep me in your duas, i want to experince those 'undescribable feelings' too. inshallah a baby is in my kismet too and the medicine works!!
:wasalam:
 

bilalswife1983

Junior Member
Salam,

I'm not even sure how I found this thread but I thought it was beautiful and wanted to bump it and get people involved in it again. Reading it made me feel all warm inside! I could write a novel on my first experiences with my children (elhamdolilah I have 2). It really is an indescribable feeling. You carry this baby inside you for 9 months and he or she is moving and kicking and rolling.......I absolutely love it! And then you see them and hear their cries for the first time.........it's just not something words can describe! I feel it and I'm sure if you were looking at me, you would see my face and heart beaming with joy.

When both of my children were born, I felt as if I had seen them before and that was really strange for me, especially with my first born (my second looks like his sister so it's obvious why he was familiar lol). I want to experience it again someday insha allah.

Children are so crazy and it's like no matter what they do, all they have to do is say "Momma" and smile (maybe throw a kiss in there, depending on what they have destroyed!) and everything is forgiven. You try to stand firm, be strong, discipline is important.....but it's so hard when they flash that smile and those little arms are wrapped around your neck. At some point you realize that they know just how to work you to get out of trouble and that's when you're in trouble! That's when no matter what they do, you really do have to "stand firm" and that's so hard. You spend all your time and energy trying not to give in to that cuteness.

I'm going to stop now before I spend my entire night typing. I couldn't imagine not being a parent! Elhamdolilah, I love it. I thank Allah everyday for those precious little blessings. May He bless all with healthy and pious children. Ameen.
 

muhammadin

Junior Member
:salam2:

im gonna b a mother in any coming days. jst waiting for the day to come. i dont know how it wud b to see my baby for the first time but im really changed since i got pregnant. me n my husband really excited. v were never this serious abt life.

my baby in my womb has changed my personality, my way of thinking for the world, my religious thinking. wen i got to know that i m pregnant, i cried a lot. coz i was not sure that i wud b able to b a good mother or not as i m not at all mature. i never take things seriously. i thot how wud i make my baby a perfect humanbeing and a perfect muslim. my family is so religious but i was a very normal muslim. just praying four (yes four, i never wok up for fadr namaj) times prayer n fasting n thats it. i used to read Quran only on friday. I was so very much busy in this world. in going out, doing job, watching my daily soaps, singing n music stuff. :astag:
But wen i came to know that i m pregnant, i knew that i m gonna add one humanbeing in ummah of hujur saw and wat will i answer him that how did i help my religion. so i decided to be a really good muslim. I started reading lots n lots of books like whole life story of hujur saw, tafseer of Quran, a book about how to brt up ur child from islamic view, how to b good parent, etc. i started reading Quran regularly. Since 9 mnths, im not watching TV at all. i dont sing, dnt listen music. i chant dua all the time. since thn, i m not even drinking water without blowing "ya qudduso" on it. i have got so much knowledge about my din since i'v became pregnant. n the most imp thing, i got to know is how allah want to give us sawab in so many easy ways. if i just think that im going to have this child to increase ummah of hujur saw, then also i wud get reward. mashallah.

im having a unique peace of mind n happiness, i have never ever felt in my life. i was very nagative before but now wenever i think, i think positive. i can say that my iman has increased alhamdulillah. in a form of my baby, Allah has given me a new life.. one chance to get my life back on track.
previously, wen me n my husband were sitting togather, we used to talk abt lods of thing but now wen we sit, we discuss about islam, about ibadah, abt hujur saw-his life, hadith and such useful things.

im happy in Real sence now, alhamdulillah. its a unique feeling to b a mother. :SMILY259:
 

Zayna85908

Junior Member
When I had my first baby it just felt natural and unreal. But I was so excited when I got pregnant and when my midwife said its time to deliver my baby i was so ready as nine months is a long time.

THE best ever experience seeing your baby for the first time and seeing him grow up into a beautiful little treasure. I cant wait til my second one. Me and husband hope to get pregnant again soon.
 

sky

New Member
Love for my Mother

When I had my baby, I felt immense love for the child. Then I began to realise that my love for my mother should be even greater.
 

nizar83

Junior Member
mashallah

GET MARRIED ! all this slick topics that eventually end up in marriage hussle...mashallah

if anyone like's another one and wants to marry, than tawakkal ala ALLAH and get married..
 

amirah80

*Fear Allah*
:salam2:


Being blessed with my children is one of my greatest accomplishments but biggest responsiblity. I love them dearly and the love you have for them prevents you from being selfish and makes you patient. After having children It sheds a whole new light on life itself. It is a challenge but the most precious gift. Your mom is right when you have kids you will see what she means. She can explain and explain and explain but you will not understand until it happens to you then everything your mom said you will be repeating to your kids. Weird but true. You will learn to appreciate your mom more when you are one :) By the way your thinking does change because now you have to think for them.

Salam
Amirah80
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Oem Soufiane

Junior Member
:salam2:


Being blessed with my children is one of my greatest accomplishments but biggest responsiblity. I love them dearly and the love you have for them prevents you from being selfish and makes you patient. After having children It sheds a whole new light on life itself. It is a challenge but the most precious gift. Your mom is right when you have kids you will see what she means. She can explain and explain and explain but you will not understand until it happens to you then everything your mom said you will be repeating to your kids. Weird but true. You will learn to appreciate your mom more when you are one :) By the way your thinking does change because now you have to think for them.

Salam
Amirah80
:hearts:

:salam2:

:SMILY252:
 
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