Salam2You
Lil' Muslimah
Salam alaikum,
My sister has problems I think she's mental, she has a disability. She continuously swears at my parents and abuses them. I can only describe in words, if you were to see how she treated my parents you would be scared.
She has threatened to kill me with a kitchen knife, etc. I react to that quite laid back because I just say my shahada whenever I'm threatened even though I don't want to die so young.
She got kicked out by my parents because they warned her so many times and they've had enough. When the police came to pick her up they too could see what struggle we went through..
So now I hear this conversation between my mum and dad. They say in our tradition if you go to a imam you could tell them your situation, they'll say a prayer before you and write something down. I asked my mother what they write down and she said it's a prayer that the imaams close repeatedly and put in a container/box, and give you water along with it for the person in the bad situation to drink. I looked at my brother thinking it's wrong.. Is it? It sounds a bit like magic to me....
But overall you can see what problems I'm in and I'm only turning 15, worst problem is for my beautiful parents.
May Allah excuse my parents and have mercy upon them as they have brought me up.
I'm quite depressed to be honest.
Please just feedback whatever you can.. I need comfort, it's hard to cope having to see my blessed parents cry for over 2 hours may Allah bless them.
My sister has problems I think she's mental, she has a disability. She continuously swears at my parents and abuses them. I can only describe in words, if you were to see how she treated my parents you would be scared.
She has threatened to kill me with a kitchen knife, etc. I react to that quite laid back because I just say my shahada whenever I'm threatened even though I don't want to die so young.
She got kicked out by my parents because they warned her so many times and they've had enough. When the police came to pick her up they too could see what struggle we went through..
So now I hear this conversation between my mum and dad. They say in our tradition if you go to a imam you could tell them your situation, they'll say a prayer before you and write something down. I asked my mother what they write down and she said it's a prayer that the imaams close repeatedly and put in a container/box, and give you water along with it for the person in the bad situation to drink. I looked at my brother thinking it's wrong.. Is it? It sounds a bit like magic to me....
But overall you can see what problems I'm in and I'm only turning 15, worst problem is for my beautiful parents.
May Allah excuse my parents and have mercy upon them as they have brought me up.
I'm quite depressed to be honest.
Please just feedback whatever you can.. I need comfort, it's hard to cope having to see my blessed parents cry for over 2 hours may Allah bless them.