depressed_558
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This is about marriage. i want to get married to the man of my choice but the problem is im really scared of telling my parents..my parents are very strict and they claim to be religious and all. why i said they claim?because they choose what they think is right, they only want us siblings to marry someone within my tribe and of their choice. im pakistani btw. the guy i want to marry, is a good muslim and good charatered man. just because he is not of my caste, my parents wouldnt accept him i know. but i dont want to marry anyone else but him. it hurts to know that my parents might abuse me and get me married to their choice. i love my parents and obey them but i want them to accept him and me together. how do i do this? please help me...so depressed because of it. my parents wont open the subject of marriage until my older sister(a year older) gets married and when they found a guy of their choice and shoves him to me to get married. i want my parents to understand me and im so so scared of it as they might not understand. i pray everyday, do zkir so that Allah opens their mind...the guy actually made me more religious too. advice me pls