How are any of your questions relevant or the subject matter of this forum or of anyone's inquiry, for that matter? What difference to you or to anyone here is it if this man's money was "hard-earned" or if he is looking for a teacher who speaks Arabic? How and why is that pertinent to the trespass notice?
And why are you putting your questions about Aapa's education on this forum? What does it matter to you or to us what her university degree is in? What her experience is in? Why do you have such an unusual interest in all things Aapa? CAn you give us the contact details for your fiancee? I think she would want to know about all this and what an unusual person you are. Do you call her "damn gullible" too? Do you tell your mother that she lacks brain cells?
And since you have so willingly provided us with information about the results of your investigations, as well as fairly personal attacks on Aapa and others on this forum ("damn gullible"...lack of brain cells..... inability to think...etc - Astaghfirullah), why don't YOU tell us where you are getting your information about this man from? Ah, let me guess -- you will keep that confidential, right?
I'm sorry, but you are a rude boy. Someone along the way forgot to teach you manners. You are hiding behind the cloak of anonymity by hurling judgements and insults to others. I've been reading your posts for the last several days and I am truly disgusted by the type of language you use and the manner in which you insult others. I'm wondering, where did you receive your Islamic education? If you were my son, I would slap you. I am truly, truly frightened for the woman who is going to be your wife. She will be verbally abused till the cows come home. You will be condescending and rude to her, and put her down whenever she tries to assert herself.
May Allah forgive you.
Why don't I update you on my relationship in 2 years? If you are wrong, then I want you to swear to Allah right now that you donate $10,000 to the people of Gaza. If you are right, then I will donate $10,000 to the people of Gaza. Either way, Palestine will benefit
Now, Precious Star, why are you women so sensitive? What is so wrong with dissecting a situation? For example, you once told us that you were having a hard time finding a husband. Wallahi, I, along with many other brothers and sisters felt bad. I wished at that moment, I knew someone at the mosque who was single and looking for a wife. It would have made me happy to see you happy.
BUT THEN, in another thread, you told us "I am fat because I like to eat a lot." And that got me thinking, "WTH man?! That's the problem right there!" Now look, we're going to join the gym and we are going to get you fit, okay? and I promise you you will have the best husband in the world who will keep your slim heart safe in his chest. Say InshaAllah!