jazakom Allah kheir
personally .i have seen many brothers making seriouse mistakes when they give advice.their parents. their wives.their sons.i swaer they get fed up with them because they are harshly very violent.no sweet word.no good manner.no wisdom
evidently. all this has nothing to do with prephetic behaviour. with coranic method.with companions.sayings.
we ask God to help us giving the right advice with the right method.
Such a beautiful advice, subhaanallaah! So many of us lack in the etiquette of giving naseeha. We just right into it being led by our emotions and the result is often nasty--either we've hurt someone's feelings or we've caused a rift to come between two believers, may Allaah `azza wa jall help us all!
Jazaakillaahu khayran, ukhtil-kareemah for sharing this!