I need answers plz!!!
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IbnAdam77
Travelling towards my grave.
assalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh respected sister
Yes there are proofs that one cannot propose like you mentioned above.
Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having said this: None amongst you should outbid another in a transaction, nor should he make proposals of marriage upon the proposal made by someone else.
Muslim :: Book 8 : Hadith 3286
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying: A man must not make proposal of marriage to a woman when his brother has done so already. And he must not offer a price for a thing for which his brother had already offered a price; and a woman must not be combined in marriage with her father's sister, nor with her mother's sister, and a woman must not ask to have her sister divorced in order to deprive her of what belongs to her, but she must marry, because she will have what Allah has decreed for her.
Muslim :: Book 8 : Hadith 3274
Hope it helps you my dear sister.
wassalam 'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
ummyasiin
Striving for Janatul firdous
shukan my brothers, now I can sleep, ppl are rude and selfish
Chapter 6: PROHIBITION OF ONE" S MAKING THE PROPOSAL OF MARRIAGE WHEN IT HAS ALREADY BEEN MADE BY ONE'S BROTHER UNTIL HE PERMITS OR GIVES HER UP
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Book 008, Number 3286:
Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having said this: None amongst you should outbid another in a transaction, nor should he make proposals of marriage upon the proposal made by someone else.
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Book 008, Number 3287:
Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having said this: A person should not enter into a transaction when his brother (had already entered into but not finalised), and he should not make proposal of marriage upon the proposal already made by his brother, until he permits it.
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Book 008, Number 3288:
A hadith like this has been reported on the authority of Nafi' with the same chain of transmitters.
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Book 008, Number 3289:
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having forbidden a dweller of the town selling the merchandise of a villager or outbidding in a sale (in order that another might fall into a snare), or a person making the proposal of marriage when his brother has already made such a proposal, or entering into a transaction when his brother has already entered; and a woman asking the divorce of her sister in order to deprive her of what belongs to her. 'Amr made this addition:" The person should not purchase in opposition to his brother."
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Book 008, Number 3290:
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as having said this: Do not outbid in a sale in order to ensnare. No man should enter into a transaction in which his brother has already entered, and no dweller of the town should sell on behalf of the villager. And no man should make a proposal of marriage which his brother has already made and no woman should ask for the divorce of another (co-wife) in order to deprive her of what belongs to her.
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Book 008, Number 3291:
A hadith like this has been narrated on the authority of Zuhri with the same chain of transmitters but with a slight alteration.
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Book 008, Number 3292:
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The Muslim should not purchase in opposition to his brother, and he should not make the proposal of marriage on the proposal already made by his brother.
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Book 008, Number 3293:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) through another chain of transmitters.
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Book 008, Number 3294:
'Uqba b. 'Amir said on the pulpit that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: A believer is the brother of a believer, so it is not lawful for a believer to outbid his brother, and he should not propose an engagement when his brother has thus proposed until he gives it up.
Chapter 6: PROHIBITION OF ONE" S MAKING THE PROPOSAL OF MARRIAGE WHEN IT HAS ALREADY BEEN MADE BY ONE'S BROTHER UNTIL HE PERMITS OR GIVES HER UP
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Book 008, Number 3286:
Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having said this: None amongst you should outbid another in a transaction, nor should he make proposals of marriage upon the proposal made by someone else.
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Book 008, Number 3287:
Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having said this: A person should not enter into a transaction when his brother (had already entered into but not finalised), and he should not make proposal of marriage upon the proposal already made by his brother, until he permits it.
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Book 008, Number 3288:
A hadith like this has been reported on the authority of Nafi' with the same chain of transmitters.
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Book 008, Number 3289:
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as having forbidden a dweller of the town selling the merchandise of a villager or outbidding in a sale (in order that another might fall into a snare), or a person making the proposal of marriage when his brother has already made such a proposal, or entering into a transaction when his brother has already entered; and a woman asking the divorce of her sister in order to deprive her of what belongs to her. 'Amr made this addition:" The person should not purchase in opposition to his brother."
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Book 008, Number 3290:
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as having said this: Do not outbid in a sale in order to ensnare. No man should enter into a transaction in which his brother has already entered, and no dweller of the town should sell on behalf of the villager. And no man should make a proposal of marriage which his brother has already made and no woman should ask for the divorce of another (co-wife) in order to deprive her of what belongs to her.
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Book 008, Number 3291:
A hadith like this has been narrated on the authority of Zuhri with the same chain of transmitters but with a slight alteration.
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Book 008, Number 3292:
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The Muslim should not purchase in opposition to his brother, and he should not make the proposal of marriage on the proposal already made by his brother.
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Book 008, Number 3293:
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) through another chain of transmitters.
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Book 008, Number 3294:
'Uqba b. 'Amir said on the pulpit that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: A believer is the brother of a believer, so it is not lawful for a believer to outbid his brother, and he should not propose an engagement when his brother has thus proposed until he gives it up.
As-Salamu Alaykum,
I once remember a time, when a brother proposed to a sister, the sister basicilly said wait for a bit. Then another brother heard about the proposal, he got jealous and secretly married her, because he was from a well-off background, his whole family were practiclly doctors, he managed to get it done very quietly.
I think you should wait, see what happens, if she rejects his proposal, then you jump right on the ball. If not then their are plenty of other woman, there's more woman than men in this world, so it should be easy finding someone.
I once remember a time, when a brother proposed to a sister, the sister basicilly said wait for a bit. Then another brother heard about the proposal, he got jealous and secretly married her, because he was from a well-off background, his whole family were practiclly doctors, he managed to get it done very quietly.
I think you should wait, see what happens, if she rejects his proposal, then you jump right on the ball. If not then their are plenty of other woman, there's more woman than men in this world, so it should be easy finding someone.