Pocahontas
New Member
Alsalamu 'aleekum wa ra7matAllah wa Barakatuh
I have been thinking of something for a long time, but I've never really had the chance to ask anyone.. So I think this site is perfect as we can be "anonymous" 7amdella.
Something has bothered me, when it comes to marriage..
Why do so many brothers think if a reverted muslimah has a past she's not proud of, that it's no big deal, because she wasn't raised by muslim parents. and if a muslimah born by (non-religious) muslim parents has the exactly same past she's not proud of either, It's a big deal. Then it's suddenly so important to them..? A jahil is a jahil.
It's something between the person and Allah. If Allah subhanahu wa ta3ala forgives. why does it the past mean anything at all to many brothers.. (ps. I'm not saying all.. ) and if someone thinks there is a difference then please explain why there is.
w:salam2:
I have been thinking of something for a long time, but I've never really had the chance to ask anyone.. So I think this site is perfect as we can be "anonymous" 7amdella.
Something has bothered me, when it comes to marriage..
Why do so many brothers think if a reverted muslimah has a past she's not proud of, that it's no big deal, because she wasn't raised by muslim parents. and if a muslimah born by (non-religious) muslim parents has the exactly same past she's not proud of either, It's a big deal. Then it's suddenly so important to them..? A jahil is a jahil.
It's something between the person and Allah. If Allah subhanahu wa ta3ala forgives. why does it the past mean anything at all to many brothers.. (ps. I'm not saying all.. ) and if someone thinks there is a difference then please explain why there is.
w:salam2: