Only learned 8 things in 33 years!?!

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In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful,

Asalaamu ALaiakum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu

Advice of Hatim al-Asamm
by Sister Laila Mabrûk

It is related that one day Shaqiq al-Balkhi asked his student Hatim al-Asamm, "How long have you kept my company?"

"Thirty-three years," he replied.

"And what have you learned from me in all this time?"

"Eight things," he said.

"We belong to Allah and we return to him!" exclaimed Shaqiq. "You have spent your whole life with me and only learned eight things! What are they?"

"Firstly," replied Hatim, "I looked at mankind and I saw that everyone loves something and continues to do so. When he goes to his grave, whatever he loved leaves him. Therefore I made my good actions what I love, for when I enter the grave they will enter it along with me."

"You have done well," said Shaqiq. "What is the second?"

"The second is that I examined the words of the Almighty,

'But as for him who feared the Station of his Lord and forbade the self its appetites, the Garden shall be his refuge. (79:40-41)


Knowing that the words of the Almighty are true, I strove against myself to keep my appetites at bay until I was firm in Allah Almighty.

The third is that I looked at people and saw that everyone has something of worth which they value and protect. Then I looked at the words of the Almighty,


'What is with you comes to an end. But what is with Allah is everlasting.' (16:96)


So whenever something of value comes to me, I direct it to Allah Almighty so that it may remain with Him for me.

The fourth is that I looked at Allah's creatures and saw that all of them set much store by property, reputation, honour, and lineage. I examined those things and found them to be nothing. Then I looked at the words of the Almighty,


'The noblest among you in Allah's sight is the most godfearing of you.' (49:13)

So I set much store by fear of Allah so that I might be noble in His sight.

The fifth is that I looked at people and I found that some of them attacked others and some of them cursed others; and I realised that the reason they did that was envy. Then I looked at the words of the Almighty,


'We have meted out among them their livelihood in the life of this world.' (43:32)

So I abandoned envy and enmity towards creation, knowing that what is allotted to me will and must reach me.

The sixth is that I saw that people fought and were hostile to one another. I looked for my true enemy and found it to be Shaytan and indeed Allah Almighty says,


'Shaytan is an enemy to you, so treat him as an enemy.'(35:6)

So I made him my enemy and loved everyone else. The seventh is that I looked at mankind and found them seeking excessive wealth and abasing themselves because of it. I looked at the words of the Almighty,


'There is no creature on the earth whose provision is not with Allah alone.' (11:6)

I realised that I am one of those who are provided for and so I busied myself with Allah Almighty and abandoned everything else besides Him.

The eighth is that I looked at people and I saw that they relied on different things: one on his commerce, another on his profession, and yet another on his health. Every creature was relying on another creature! I looked at the words of the Almighty,

'And whoever puts his trust in Allah, He is enough for him.' (65:3)

Therefore I put my trust in Allah Almighty."

"Hatim," said Shaqiq, "Allah has given you sucsess, and you have left nothing out. 'He gives wisdom to whomever He wishes.'"

Taken from the book: The Day of Rising Published by Dar al-Taqwa Ltd. 1997

:wasalam:
 

Muslimah-S

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:salam2:
Ameen. Allahmdulilah it is a very beneficial info.
Wa iyyakum wa barakAllahu feekum brothers and sisters.
:wasalam:
 

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
jasakallah khair..well, i dnt have time to read it..but as i have seen everyone saying that its vry good...then i will read it inshallah!:)
 

Aisya al-Humaira

الحمدلله على كل حال
The third is that I looked at people and saw that everyone has something of worth which they value and protect. Then I looked at the words of the Almighty,

'What is with you comes to an end. But what is with Allah is everlasting.' (16:96)

So whenever something of value comes to me, I direct it to Allah Almighty so that it may remain with Him for me.

The sixth is that I saw that people fought and were hostile to one another. I looked for my true enemy and found it to be Shaytan and indeed Allah Almighty says,

'Shaytan is an enemy to you, so treat him as an enemy.'(35:6)

So I made him my enemy and loved everyone else.

MashaAllaah. Two of the great advices that I love!

Jazakallahu khayr.
 

rayray

Junior Member
Wow! I'm glad I opened this thread....

They say that nothing is original. And that you should steal from anywhere that 1. fuels your imagination 2. resonates with inspiration, or 3. speaks directly to your soul... This certainly has! I'ma steal it :D

"In any case, it's not where you take things from- it's where you take them to"- Luc Godard

....just site the reference if it's for a paper...haha!
 

arzafar

Junior Member
:salam2:

very good post. 33 years is long time but we are lucky to have that knowledge as advice. Hopefully we can implement it. Inshallah.
 
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