Assalamu'alaykum,
I just wanted to bring an issue out into the public domain so that if anyone else happens to be experiencing the same problem you can refer to this and take appropriate action. I am conscious that some members may be slightly more vulnerable in this context than others. For some of you, (I like to think 'most of you'), what I'm about to say is elementary and obvious.
If you are a sister and you receive a PM from a member of the opposite gender stating they are seeking a marriage partner then you should be aware that this is unacceptable. In most of these cases these 'members' have made very few posts they are simply opportunists, if given the chance, they can potentially cause problems for you if you engage in conversation.
Here is an example of one some sisters may have received recently:
1. Report the PM to a moderator immediately.
2. Do not reply yourself, ignore it.
Please be vigilant, take care of yourselves and do not make yourselves vulnerable in an online setting. Follow the protocal and inshaAllaah you wont have any nasty experiences.
Similarly, if brothers are receiving PM's then this applies to you also, report the PM to a moderator.
All the best, happy posting.
Wa-alaykum assalam
I just wanted to bring an issue out into the public domain so that if anyone else happens to be experiencing the same problem you can refer to this and take appropriate action. I am conscious that some members may be slightly more vulnerable in this context than others. For some of you, (I like to think 'most of you'), what I'm about to say is elementary and obvious.
If you are a sister and you receive a PM from a member of the opposite gender stating they are seeking a marriage partner then you should be aware that this is unacceptable. In most of these cases these 'members' have made very few posts they are simply opportunists, if given the chance, they can potentially cause problems for you if you engage in conversation.
Here is an example of one some sisters may have received recently:
You should,
1. Report the PM to a moderator immediately.
2. Do not reply yourself, ignore it.
Please be vigilant, take care of yourselves and do not make yourselves vulnerable in an online setting. Follow the protocal and inshaAllaah you wont have any nasty experiences.
Similarly, if brothers are receiving PM's then this applies to you also, report the PM to a moderator.
All the best, happy posting.
Wa-alaykum assalam