Salaam brothers and sisters. I'm a white 34 year old who reverted last year and married a Pakistani woman in March of this year. We had known each other for a couple of years previously and she helped me a great deal to find the path. Her deen used to be very strong, salah 5 times a day, modest dress etc. However, just before I converted she stopped wearing the hijab and stopped praying and wears clothes that are not appropriate for a muslim wife. Now, the stronger my faith becomes, the more it is becoming an issue. Her parents and sisters are practising muslims and have been a great source of support for me as I find my way; her father especially has taken to his role as a mentor!
I have tried talking with my wife about her faith and encouraged her to return to salah at least but she refuses. She still believes in Allah and Islam but at the same time I feel she takes her faith for granted.
This is not a general marriage issue - I've been married before to a non-muslim but I have different expectations of a muslim wife.
Has anyone else been a similar situation? Can anyone offer any advice?
I have tried talking with my wife about her faith and encouraged her to return to salah at least but she refuses. She still believes in Allah and Islam but at the same time I feel she takes her faith for granted.
This is not a general marriage issue - I've been married before to a non-muslim but I have different expectations of a muslim wife.
Has anyone else been a similar situation? Can anyone offer any advice?