slaveofAllah88
Slave of Allah (swt)
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To what degree are we suppose to listen to our parents especially when it comes to some criticial decisions , and my Question basically lies around here
1. Forcing you to shave beard, celebrating birthdays?
I know that hadith but then Quran speaks of the huge rights of parents should i take their command over this sunnah of beard?
Also, is it true there is a kaffara if you shave your beard after 40 days of keeping it?
Bukhari :: Book 7 :: Volume 72 :: Hadith 780
Narrated Nafi':
Ibn Umar said, The Prophet said, 'Do the opposite of what the pagans do. Keep the beards and cut the moustaches short.' Whenever Ibn 'Umar performed the Hajj or 'Umra, he used to hold his beard with his hand and cut whatever moustaches. Ibn Umar used to cut his moustache so short that the whiteness of his skin (above the upper lip) was visible, and he used to cut (the hair) between his moustaches and his beard.
2. Marriage
If you parents force you to marry someone or push or emotionally black mail should you listen to them in all circumstances? and i heard from a friend who cant find the reference, that if parents tell you to divorce your wife you should?
I have some other Questions too but i want to concentrate on these right now
JazakAllah khair
:salam2:
To what degree are we suppose to listen to our parents especially when it comes to some criticial decisions , and my Question basically lies around here
1. Forcing you to shave beard, celebrating birthdays?
I know that hadith but then Quran speaks of the huge rights of parents should i take their command over this sunnah of beard?
Also, is it true there is a kaffara if you shave your beard after 40 days of keeping it?
Bukhari :: Book 7 :: Volume 72 :: Hadith 780
Narrated Nafi':
Ibn Umar said, The Prophet said, 'Do the opposite of what the pagans do. Keep the beards and cut the moustaches short.' Whenever Ibn 'Umar performed the Hajj or 'Umra, he used to hold his beard with his hand and cut whatever moustaches. Ibn Umar used to cut his moustache so short that the whiteness of his skin (above the upper lip) was visible, and he used to cut (the hair) between his moustaches and his beard.
2. Marriage
If you parents force you to marry someone or push or emotionally black mail should you listen to them in all circumstances? and i heard from a friend who cant find the reference, that if parents tell you to divorce your wife you should?
I have some other Questions too but i want to concentrate on these right now
JazakAllah khair
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