well what i mean is that these kuffar dont feel ashamed when they say the son of GOD (Astagfirullah) so why do we feel ashamed when we call them kafir ????????????? who are we to dislike the term Kafir ????????
Whats wrong with the term untouchable?
Whats wrong with the term terrorist?
Whats wrong with the term nigger?
Whats wrong with the term black?
Whats wrong with the term Kufr?
Whats wrong with the term 'I'?
There is nothing wrong with term, but with the way the person is using the term. Familiarity could breed contempt. But awareness expects sensitivity. Its not about ashamed, but question should be, 'is it really needed?', I think.
"O you who have believed, when you go forth in the cause of Allah , investigate; and do not say to one who gives you [a greeting of] peace "You are not a believer," aspiring for the goods of worldly life; for with Allah are many acquisitions. You (yourselves) were like that before; then Allah conferred His favor upon you, so investigate. Indeed Allah is ever, with what you do, Acquainted." [Qur'an 4:94]
Well .... context and sensitivity, Needs, practice, patience and goodness. Agree?
May Allah make us better mannered... Ameen.