TIME TO LEAVE

hayat84

I'm not what you believe
:salam2:
I write to all my brothers and sisters is Islam who shared with me important informations.you helped me very much and I thank you all.It has been very good to be a member of this "family",but now it's time for me to leave TTI...I suppose that you wish to know why;well,I don't feel neither good,nor happy.yesterady,to the ennesimal dispute with my husband(hope he forgives me for my madness),he forbade for revenge me to enter in TTI,because he said that I spend too much time here(it's not true) than in the house,which is dirty.I told him that I'm so sad,that I find a little of peace in TTI,but now I'm too disappointed with him and I'll listen to him,even it cries me my heart by leaving you.
I feel like in a terrible nightmare by which I want to wake up.I feel crazy,and I think I'm losing my mind,nothing is in its place.I seek Allah's help,but Allah is just looking at me,while the devils are destroying me.I tried to be happy,but each time I was so,something bad passed to me,so what I said in the thread about Jinn is true,I can see the face of this creature and I can't react,cause I feel very weak.I hope to be back to you as soon as possible,cause now my health doesn't allow me.I'll close in myself till the moment everything will be clearer.Hoping you'll think to me and you'll not forget me,I leave you my last poem.

HAPPY DAYS

When your day'll come,there will be no pain
and the tears you'll cry will be just a remembering
of your happy days
that today have ended.
Don't matter if you must leave,
cause life will go on
like nothing had passed,so be happy,
cause you're leaving your family
that in Sh Allah you'll meet in Jannah.​

:SMILY259::SMILY259:bye bye TTI
 

Aisya al-Humaira

الحمدلله على كل حال
Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullah,

We hope to see you again soon. InshaAllaah may Allaah give you a good health and peace of a mind. Because know that life in this world is only play and amusement.

"Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children - like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allah and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion." Al-Hadid,57:20

I believe your family and your children needs you more. Im sure they do, because we women need to run the house, clean and cook. Someday I will too inshaAllaah. Once in a while, you can come here because anyone is always welcome to TTI :)

Take care dear Sister.

Waa'laykummusalam wa rahmatullah.
 

fatima1994

ƒ3!RY $p!r!T
:salam2:
Dear sis im gonna miss you:(:( Well dont be sad inshallah you'll be back soon:D May Allah ease your pain and may all ur problems be solved ameen!:tti_sister: I wont 4get u:D In my dua inshallah....

:wasalam:
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam

Asalamu allaicum wa rahmatullah wa baraktuhu dear sister

Mashallah, you were very active member here and we all liked your posts and poems mashallah.Inshallah. you do not need to leave TTI forever dear sister, because you can organize your time, to visit TTI from time to time,and still that it leave you a loot of time for your home obligations. Inshallah you can talk with your husband,and ask him that he let you spend at least litlle time on TTI, and that you will aslo use your other free time for your home obligations.:hijabi: If time is well organised, everything can be done on time.

I hope Inshallah you will come back soon sister.:SMILY252:

May Allah bless you and keep you. ameen

:wasalam:
 

Aisha hussain..

seeking knowledge
salam alykum i will miss your poems sis
hope to see you soon inshallah :D

we will remeber you in our prayers so no one will forg3t you :)

wasalam
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Salaam walaikum,


You have your hands full. And motherhood can be very lonely. You are in need of rest at this time. Why don't you spend 30 minutes a day. Explain to your husband you need this time to spend with the girls and women on TTI.
I will be here wating for my sweet little girl..

my love, yor aaoa
 

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
Salam sister. . Ur going , i am really feeling very sad. I feel like crying . I cant stay without you hayat sister. i will miss u a lot. . And i am not lying . . I was so happy that you got a baby boy. . Thought you would stay with us all. . . But . . . I will just pray for you sis. . I hope every thing gets fine
 

muharram23

New Member
Staff member
Salamu alaykum

sister hayat. Maybe there is a reason why ur husband does not want u to spend so much besides the things he mentioned. Maybe it is better fir u to take a little break and give more attention to ur husbands needs. Obeying ur husband is an obligation while TTI is not. Maybe the concerns he brought are big to him. Also, there is more virtue in things like reciting, reading and memorizing And understanding the Quran. We don't spend much time with Quran. Sometimes shaytan will make us do a smaller deed over a more virtuous deed.

Another thing is that no one is obligated to stay 24/7 on TTI :). People can take a day, week, month or even years of break and still come back. So it is not necesarry for every single memeber on TTI to open threads to say they are leaving.

So sister hayat, take a little break and if he is ok after some time, then spend 10 or 20 min. Is better than nothing. Sometimes not at all could be better for some people as there is a lot of fitnah online. However, Allah knows best.

Also, sister hayat it is better not to mention the fault or what ur husband said to u. Otherwise, it is backbiting ur husband. No husband would be happy to find out that his wife is talking to the world about him. That is a way shaytan uses to create hate btween the couples. I know i wouldn't b happy :).


Wassalam
 

hayat84

I'm not what you believe
:salam2:
my all dears,here I am again.thank you very much for your help.I cleared my misunderstanding with my sweetheart and explained him that i am so depressed and stressed,that I prefere spending little time her in TTI,cause it's like a therapy.my house is not so dirty like I said before,I give attention to all my family at first,my husband works 10 hours a day and I rarely enter in TTI if he's at home,cause I wish to spend a little time with him.I wanted to respond to someone whose name is PEACE2U,who sent me PM,well I see the face of this creature,but it's locked in my head.What is RUQYA?please excuse me if I was too impulsive,by obeying to my husband I could see that now he asked me to enter in TTI cause he knows that I have many brothers and sisters who are waiting for me.But please give me a hand,cause I want to die muslima but how much I'm suffering?!Shaytan made me get far from my children,my family and you all,I'm so sorry...I need an Imam who can hunt away thi evil.Forgive me for my madness:tti_sister:
 

Peace2u

Turn To Islam
:salam2:
my all dears,here I am again.thank you very much for your help.I cleared my misunderstanding with my sweetheart and explained him that i am so depressed and stressed,that I prefere spending little time her in TTI,cause it's like a therapy.my house is not so dirty like I said before,I give attention to all my family at first,my husband works 10 hours a day and I rarely enter in TTI if he's at home,cause I wish to spend a little time with him.I wanted to respond to someone whose name is PEACE2U,who sent me PM,well I see the face of this creature,but it's locked in my head.What is RUQYA?please excuse me if I was too impulsive,by obeying to my husband I could see that now he asked me to enter in TTI cause he knows that I have many brothers and sisters who are waiting for me.But please give me a hand,cause I want to die muslima but how much I'm suffering?!Shaytan made me get far from my children,my family and you all,I'm so sorry...I need an Imam who can hunt away thi evil.Forgive me for my madness:tti_sister:

Asalam alai kum sister,

Apologies for asking you in a PM, I wasn't sure if you wanted it to be known public. When you mentioned Jin I was rather concerned only because I've had first hand experience with them. Ruqya is basically certain verses of the Quran that you can read that can help expel the Jin. Anyway, it's important you try and preform Ruqya on yourself and if you cannot then seek the help of an Imam in your country that specialises in this field. Inshallah, what ever it is you're seeing will disappear by the will of Allah SWT.

Peace2u
 

slaveofAllah88

Slave of Allah (swt)
:salam2:

the Ruqya that peace2u Mentioned is actually very helpful, sister muslimah86 gave it to me and it helped me alot why dont you try it too =).

make wudu'u or ghusl (whichever you prefer point is be in a *state of tahara*) and listen...

If you get any sensations such as fear..numbing..aching..twitching in limbs..burning sensations on some body parts..tingling..nausea..extreme sleepiness..extreme tearing..tightening of the chest..DO NOT STOP LISTENING..do not be frightened..hang on..and carry on listening..until the ruqya is done for the day/night..and repeat this everyday until all sensations disappear..because the things I listed above are all symptoms of the evil eye and/or black magic which are provoked by the ayat you will hear..

Also to add more to the ruqya (and if you wish I can do this for you) find the ayahs of ruqya..recite them to yourself (a bit loudly)..then blow into the water you drink everyday and/or the oil your food is cooked with..

i attached audio file in attachment and also pdf with translation of verses.

also, sister ALways remember nothing can happen without the will of Allah (swt), if you feel something is wrong than put your faith in Allah (swt) that he will protect you aur SubhanALlah when you put your complete faith in Allah (swt) even the biggest threat wont harm you, and everything in this duniya is a test, and every test is a way for you to put your faith in Allah and help it grow stronger, get your sins forgiven and increase your good deeds :).

May Allah (swt) help you solve all the problems and take away all your worries- amee

:wasalam:
 

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Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu:)

hey sis i'm foing to miss you sooooooooo much and your poems too:(may ALLAH make things easy for and peaceful between you and your husbandameen

love you for the sake of ALLAH my sister:SMILY252:
 

a_stranger

Junior Member
:salam2:

Dear sister you are not the only one in this struggle...any human who try to get closer to Allah sobhanahu wa taala will be subjected more clearly to the evils of shayten but we should keep in our minds tha Allah sobhanahu wa taala is our creator and he can do everything ....this shaytan is very weak if we have strong faith in Allah (he only flourish in our weakness) ........you should fight him by doing more good , being a good mother , teach your children Islam ,love of Allah, prayers and Duaa ..they are a living miricals of Allah so have good look at them .........one day when they are grown up you will miss their childhood and you will wish that you have taught them all the good you can .....taking care of your husband and children cleaning your house is not an easy job ...it is like jihad ..sister you are blessed never let shaytan spoil gifs Allah has given you ......prayers are very good way to defeat shaytan ...please try to teach your children how to pray with all their hearts .Allah bless you sister :SMILY259:
 
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