Do you feel the same?

[abdellah007]

salam alaykum sisters and brothes.

i was just wondering if this only happen to me. well everytime I am failed doing something i start blaming myself that this happen to me bcos of sins i have commited. what do you brothers,sisters think about this?

 

[abou haytam]

Salam o Alikom

I think brother that your thinking is one of the gate of whisper (waswaas) of shaytan. to fail in something you like to do dose not mean because your sin. Maybe allah (swt) push evil from what you are doing.

كُتِبَ عَلَيۡڪُمُ ٱلۡقِتَالُ وَهُوَ كُرۡهٌ۬ لَّكُمۡ*!ۖ وَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تَكۡرَهُواْ شَيۡـًٔ۬ا وَهُوَ خَيۡرٌ۬ لَّڪُمۡ*!ۖ وَعَسَىٰٓ أَن تُحِبُّواْ شَيۡـًٔ۬ا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ۬ لَّكُمۡ*!ۗ وَٱللَّهُ يَعۡلَمُ وَأَنتُمۡ لَا تَعۡلَمُونَ (٢١٦)

''Fighting is prescribed for you and ye dislike it. But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you, and that ye love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knoweth and ye know not''. (216) Al-Bakara

However your thinking should encourage you to avoid sins and make more good deeds.

beware from those thinking it open gates for shaytan to put your mind down.

I would like to share with you some link talking about whispers(waswaas).

http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=72307&ln=eng&txt=الوساوس

http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=3759&ln=eng&txt=الوساوس

http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ref=12315&ln=eng&txt=الوساوس

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you can check arabic version, they are more completed. i guess you sepack arabic . you can read more just search using as a key wordالوسواس

salam o alikom. and allah protect you from evil.

 

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

salam alaykum sisters and brothes.

i was just wondering if this only happen to me. well everytime I am failed doing something i start blaming myself that this happen to me bcos of sins i have commited. what do you brothers,sisters think about this?

Assalam,

Failing is one thing in life i hate doing but it comes with life. I was like you. I use to be down a lot when i fail doing something what one thing that i had learn and work hard to teach myself starting from last year(one hard year in my life) is that everything happens for a reason and Allah's SWT will. So i tell myself i wasn't meant to pass/get this or that thing during failure. It is hard doing it than said. I use to be stress a lot and sometimes i am like that while i am learning but faith gets me through it. So my advice is learn to have faith and remember that you can only offer your best. Everyone fails sometime in the road to the perfect life.

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"You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space." by Johnny Cash