hadiths about anger?

[saira1984]

Salam brothers and sisters,

I just have a little question I really want a hadith for anger, my husband is always angry and is always argueing he never listen when I say to calm down and instead I'd like to have a hadith to say to him and then he might actually listen insha allah.
He worrys me coz I know how dangerous people are and how easy it is to have a life taken away from us, I know that I cannot prevent what he has written for him but if I could help him I would really like to as I love him so much and want to able to help him

Any advice would be appreciated

Masalam Saira xx

 

[jamafg]

Assalamu Alaikum
Hard But Useful!!!

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "The best of you are those who are slow to anger and swift to cool down...Beware of anger, for it is a live coal on the heart of the descendants of Adam." - Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 1331

http://www.inter-islam.org/Lifestyle/anger.htm

The sayings of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (blessings and peace be upon him)

"When one of you becomes angry while standing he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, well and good; otherwise he should lie down."

The above quotation was said by Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) quoted from Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 5114 Narated By Abu Dharr

http://www.newmuslimsproject.net/projectsEvents/newsletter/issue16/anger.html

Hopefully Sister this help Inshalah

Salam brothers and sisters,

I just have a little question I really want a hadith for anger, my husband is always angry and is always argueing he never listen when I say to calm down and instead I'd like to have a hadith to say to him and then he might actually listen insha allah.
He worrys me coz I know how dangerous people are and how easy it is to have a life taken away from us, I know that I cannot prevent what he has written for him but if I could help him I would really like to as I love him so much and want to able to help him

Any advice would be appreciated

Masalam Saira xx

 

[Aapa]

Salaam,

The advise given to you is correct. However, as your husband is the one who is angry and you are the object of his anger .There are things you can do so you will not feel violated. Walk away. Do not engage with him when he needs to yell and scream. You are the object. Do not be the object. Give him space. Often people who are angry are just venting. He is not in a state to listen. If you tell him to calm down you are simply adding fuel to the fire. Leave the room, take a bath, take a walk, do the dishes, recite a sura. Call upon Allah subhana talla. Just do not talk to him. And slowly he will get the message.

 

[saira1984]

Salaam,

The advise given to you is correct. However, as your husband is the one who is angry and you are the object of his anger .There are things you can do so you will not feel violated. Walk away. Do not engage with him when he needs to yell and scream. You are the object. Do not be the object. Give him space. Often people who are angry are just venting. He is not in a state to listen. If you tell him to calm down you are simply adding fuel to the fire. Leave the room, take a bath, take a walk, do the dishes, recite a sura. Call upon Allah subhana talla. Just do not talk to him. And slowly he will get the message.

Jazakallahu khayran sister,

Thanks for your advice I know if he gets angry with me to walk away coz were both quite stubbon and it would end up in an arguement, what worrys me is that he argue's with other people and often calls me angry thats when I start to worry. But thanks for your advice and insha allah I'll remember the hadiths that jamafg mentioned and insha allah it will work.

Thanks again Masalam Saira x

 

[Albint_Almuslima]

Girl smack him than he will know how to control his anger:fighta:!LOL ( just kidding)

Dont listen to me thats only what i would do!:lol:

I agree with the advice given to you by my dear mother Mirajmom(cant call her sister because i love her more than a sister) and the hadith that Jamafg gave you was correct.

Salam,
Take Care,