hayat_yahya
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RESPONSABILITIES BEFORE MARRIAGE
Islam's teachings help us to form a pious family and keep it on the right way .
Marriage :
* must be done by love for Allah . Its reasons must be : making a muslim family , having children , spreading Allah's word and , through children , helping the human specie's continuity . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that if a man marry a woman by love for Allah then Allah will bless him with her and her with him .
* stops us from looking at forbidden things in order to protect our purity and faith . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that three people deserve help from Allah : the mujahid ( defender ) on Islam's way , the tutor and the person who marry in order to protect his purity . He also said the person who marry completes half of his religion so he must fear Allah just for the other half .
* must be built starting with taking the best decision in chooseing a life partener . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that we must choose the best for our generation cuse the mistake of one generation can be followed by crises .
* to choose a life partener having as qualities : good behaviour , religious responsibility and not richness or beauty .
RESPONSIBILITIES DURING MARRIAGE
* to treat our partener as well as possible in order to have a well understanding and trust between us . The Prophet ( salle allahu aleihi we sellem ) said that the best man is that who treats the best his wife .
* to achieve harmonious thinking and spirit based on love and not only on sexual fitting . To read , adore Allah , organize things concerning our home , to have fun and play together . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) used to have fun with his wife Aisha by playing diverting games and also helped her with housework even repairing shoes .
* to have a relation based on Islam and never lose the right way of Islam cuse of lazyness or weakness . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that a man who obey the commands of a woman to accomplish her desires will be sent in Hell by Allah and a man must be ashamed if he becomes a sclave of his wife .
Islam's teachings help us to form a pious family and keep it on the right way .
Marriage :
* must be done by love for Allah . Its reasons must be : making a muslim family , having children , spreading Allah's word and , through children , helping the human specie's continuity . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that if a man marry a woman by love for Allah then Allah will bless him with her and her with him .
* stops us from looking at forbidden things in order to protect our purity and faith . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that three people deserve help from Allah : the mujahid ( defender ) on Islam's way , the tutor and the person who marry in order to protect his purity . He also said the person who marry completes half of his religion so he must fear Allah just for the other half .
* must be built starting with taking the best decision in chooseing a life partener . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that we must choose the best for our generation cuse the mistake of one generation can be followed by crises .
* to choose a life partener having as qualities : good behaviour , religious responsibility and not richness or beauty .
RESPONSIBILITIES DURING MARRIAGE
* to treat our partener as well as possible in order to have a well understanding and trust between us . The Prophet ( salle allahu aleihi we sellem ) said that the best man is that who treats the best his wife .
* to achieve harmonious thinking and spirit based on love and not only on sexual fitting . To read , adore Allah , organize things concerning our home , to have fun and play together . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) used to have fun with his wife Aisha by playing diverting games and also helped her with housework even repairing shoes .
* to have a relation based on Islam and never lose the right way of Islam cuse of lazyness or weakness . The Prophet ( salleallahu aleihi we sellem ) said that a man who obey the commands of a woman to accomplish her desires will be sent in Hell by Allah and a man must be ashamed if he becomes a sclave of his wife .
