I really like her!!! Please I need some advice from sisters and brothers!

[Ibrahim_hanifa]

As-Salam alaykum,

Okay here is the situation: there is a sister in my college who I really like, I truly admire her because she is a really nice person and practicing Muslim. I never actually had any real conversation with her, whenever I see her I just give her Salaam and keep walking. I even had a class with her a few semester ago but never got to know her because I was too shy to talk to her. I see her almost every week in the hallway sometimes and in the prayer room. I don' t know what to do... I really like her for who she is and want to let her know that I like her. The problem is that I' m afraid how she is going to react if I aproach her becuase I had whole semester of class with her and didn't talk but now all the sudden I start to talK. What do I do? I have to let her know that I like her, I can't let her go and live a life of regret.. Sisters and brothers do you have any advice for me? Thank you!

 

[palestine]

Asalamu alaykum wrwb...akhi i've sent you a pm but also pray istikhara and ask Allah for that which is khayr. hope it turns out good.
asalamu alaykum wrwb

 

[Abdullah_77]

Advise? Make du'aa to Allaah(subhaanahu wa ta'ala) ... Thats the best advise anyone can give.
Laa hawla wa la quwwata illaa billaah

salaam bro and good luck inshAllah

 

[zainab bala]

Assalamu alaikum. my sincere opinion is for you to go back to Allah, ask Him to guide you for He is the only one who can get you out of every situation.

 

[ya allah madad]

:salam2:
its natural to be attracted and its not a sin .
first of all brother do istakharah and then approach her through her wali.
i mean his father,brother .tell ur mother about her .She will manage things for u.In the meanwhile, make dua to Allah to give u a pious and modest wife.

 

[islamisthesolution]

:salam2:
its natural to be attracted and its not a sin .
first of all brother do istakharah and then approach her through her wali.
i mean his father,brother .tell ur mother about her .She will manage things for u.In the meanwhile, make dua to Allah to give u a pious and modest wife.

:salam2:
i was going to say the same .
but if you just want to talk to her please ask Allah for forgiveness and dont lokk at her any more because i wont recommend that you go and just talk to her and have nice time .as a girl i wont be happy at all if someone came to me and told me anything like that .
the shortest way is to have her as a wife .
may Allah make it easy for you
:salam2:

 

[eminbey]

first of all Salam Alikum Wr Wb,second brother I don't think that saying Salam to a woman is from our deen,especially if you doubt to be a fitna as u said,your heart is very attached to her,the prophet peace and blessings of allah be upon him passed on a group of woman in Madina and he just waved with his hand , Coz Salam is for women with women and men with men(i mean stangr women and stranger men),but saying Salam to a woman opens the door of Shaytan to let us think of that women and ask your self brother? is it a proper way to go and tell her u love her????
I don't think its from Islam too,Allah SWT SAid in Quran Surat Al-Baqarah verse 235.(interpretation of the
meaning) "And there is no sin on you if you make a hint of betrothal or conceal it in yourself, Allah knows that you will remember them, but do not make a promise of contract with them in secret except that you speak an honourable saying according to the Islamic law (e.g. you can say to her, "If one finds a wife like you, he will be happy"). And do not consummate the marriage until the term prescribed is fulfilled. And know that Allah knows what is in your minds, so fear Him. And know that Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing".
And Allah SWT Said inSurat Al-baQarah (interpretation of the
meaning) verse 189 " It is not Al-Birr (piety, righteousness, etc.) that you enter the houses from the back but Al-Birr (is the quality of the one) who fears Allah. So enter houses through their proper doors, and fear Allah that you may be successful"
So brother if you are really honest and I have no doubt that you are honest follow these few steps:
1- Salat istikharah,not one, not twice but lot of till Allah guides you to what is benifit for you
2-share this thought with your parents,Coz parents especially your parents are more concious about those matters, and when your parents are pleased allah SWT is pleased.
3-Ask about her and try to meet her parents
in this way you are entering houses through their proper doors
and finally may allah guide us all to the straight path and I hope u'll find hapiness with her brother