Asja
Pearl of Islaam
Assalamu Alaicum
I have been talking to my sister friend who is 26 years old and she is not married yet. But people are telling her that SHE IS TOO OLD to get marry now. While she was passing by she called salam to her neighbours and she hear them whispering "how she is that old one that did not marry yet".
So sister who is 26 years old is too old to get marry by some opinions. And by that brother who is 26 or more years old would also be to old to get marry. Right???
But brother of 26 years old is not old and sister is. How is that possible and there is no logic in that. They should say that brother of 25 years is also old and not only sister. I just do not understan why to some people ages are so importante. Maybe this is conected with culture, tradition
or something simular becouse by logic I do not see any sense in that.
I hope Inshallah they will stop calling my sister "old one" when she is only 26 years old and she is young and beautiful.I have been repeating her that all the time but I have a feeling that words of these people are affecting on her but on negative way. May Allah protect her Inshallah. :tti_sister:
It would be very nice for a change to call brothers of 25-26 years OLD too, Inshallah.(please do not get offended Inshallah) Than this would be equality.
May Allah bless you and may Allah guide us all. Ameen
I have been talking to my sister friend who is 26 years old and she is not married yet. But people are telling her that SHE IS TOO OLD to get marry now. While she was passing by she called salam to her neighbours and she hear them whispering "how she is that old one that did not marry yet".
So sister who is 26 years old is too old to get marry by some opinions. And by that brother who is 26 or more years old would also be to old to get marry. Right???
But brother of 26 years old is not old and sister is. How is that possible and there is no logic in that. They should say that brother of 25 years is also old and not only sister. I just do not understan why to some people ages are so importante. Maybe this is conected with culture, tradition
or something simular becouse by logic I do not see any sense in that.
I hope Inshallah they will stop calling my sister "old one" when she is only 26 years old and she is young and beautiful.I have been repeating her that all the time but I have a feeling that words of these people are affecting on her but on negative way. May Allah protect her Inshallah. :tti_sister:
It would be very nice for a change to call brothers of 25-26 years OLD too, Inshallah.(please do not get offended Inshallah) Than this would be equality.
May Allah bless you and may Allah guide us all. Ameen