Women: To work, or NOT to work?

abubaseer

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INtresting BBC article

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/business/7543576.stm

Growing numbers of people are concerned about the impact of working mothers on family life, a survey by Cambridge University suggests.

It compared results of social attitude polls from the 1980s, 1990s and 2000s.

In 1998, 51% of women and 45.9% of men believed family life would not suffer if a woman went to work.

This had fallen to 46% of women and 42% of men in 2002, amid "growing sympathy" for the old-fashioned view women should be in the home and not the workplace.

'Super mum'

The survey, which questioned between 1,000 and 5,000 people, was conducted by Professor Jacqueline Scott from the university's department of sociology.

She used recent data from the International Social Survey Programme and older polls.
Professor Scott said the idea that support was steadily growing for women taking an equal role in the workplace, rather than their traditional role in the home was "clearly a myth".

She added: "Instead, there is clear evidence that women's changing role is viewed as having costs both for the woman and the family.

"It is conceivable that opinions are shifting as the shine of the 'super-mum' syndrome wears off, and the idea of women juggling high-powered careers while also baking cookies and reading bedtime stories is increasingly seen to be unrealisable by ordinary mortals."

Overseas figures

Yet, it also showed the numbers of people who believed it was the man's role to work and the wife's to look after the children had fallen.

In 1984, 59.2% of women and 65.5% of men believed that was the case, compared to 31.1% of women and 41.1% of men in 2002.

The survey focuses on results from Britain, the US and, because the earlier surveys pre-dated the fall of the Berlin Wall, the former Federal Republic of Germany.

In the US the percentage of people arguing that family life does not suffer if a woman works has plummeted, from 51% in 1994 to 38% in 2002.

About the same number of West Germans (37%) agree; but the number there has risen, having been just 24% in the mid-1990s.

'Considerable strain'

The report adds there should now be further investigation to understand why the attitude shift is occurring.

It asks whether this is because caring for the family is seen as women's work, or because people feel there is no practical alternative to a woman taking the role.

Prof Scott said a change in attitude was not the same thing as a change in behaviour, but it mattered.

She said: "Women, particularly mothers, can experience considerable strain when attitudes reinforce the notion that employment and family interests conflict.

"If we are to make progress in devising policies that encourage equal working opportunities for women, we need to know more about what gender roles people view as practical, as possible and as fair."

'Transformation needed'

Meanwhile, the Fawcett Society, which campaigns for equality between women and men in the UK on pay and pensions, said attempts to force women into a male-created workplace were failing.

Its campaigns officer Kat Banyard said: "The long working hours culture and lack of flexible working means women are presented with impossible choices - forced to choose between caring for a family at home or maximising their career opportunities.

"The result is that motherhood carries a penalty and women and men are strait-jacketed by gender stereotypes.

"We need wholesale transformation."
 

ahmed_indian

to Allah we belong
the best thing husband works outside and wife inside the home.

it really irriates me when muslim sisters who do household work are called oudated or backward.

but she has to work due to financial reasons, then wearing proper hijab (prper clothes) and working in segregation.

as one scholar said that working together in offices is "direct pathway to zina".
 

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
the best thing husband works outside and wife inside the home.

it really irriates me when muslim sisters who do household work are called oudated or backward.

but she has to work due to financial reasons, then wearing proper hijab (prper clothes) and working in segregation.

as one scholar said that working together in offices is "direct pathway to zina".

why do almost all the brothers say that sisters cannot work outside...
it will be better if sisters work out with wearing hijab, and proper cloths as you said right?
 

Mahzala

فَتَبَارَكَ اللَّهُ أَحْسَنُ الْخَالِقِينَ
Assalamualaikum

If there is no need, and the male members of the family, if their efforts in earning for the household suffice, then a women should have no reason to work. She should consider that a Blessing from God that she is given the opportunity to stay indoors most of time, rather than mixing and absorbing in and outside influences. Unless she is really career focused who just cant resist sitting at home or would like to sort out income for herself, she could do soemthing suitable for a woman or establish a work from home career or something along that. I totally agree that there are many jobs that only women can do, even in the Islamic World like nursing, teaching, midwifery, doctors etc.

My current situation at home is no males. So, if I had to (how much I would hate to do so), I may need to go further and establish a career with the degree that I intend to complete. I do not like 'big talk', and I avoid to do it, but we cant predict the future. May Allah be our Provider.

Assalamualaikum
 

ahmed_indian

to Allah we belong
why do almost all the brothers say that sisters cannot work outside...

we dont say that sisters cant work outside at any cost. but we say that if there is no need, then better not to do so.

but why do we men say that? there must be a reason for that. muslim men are not anti-muslimah. they are our sisters after all.
we must accept the fact that very few of us have strong faith. not every girl will wear proper hijab and not every boy will lower his gaze.

result: affairs, dating, hatred, crimes of passion.

are you not aware of these in indian offices?

as psychiatrists say,the attraction of men towards women is much greater than vice versa but as women are women they cannot comprehend the matter.

:)
 

allah is with me

Rabana Wa laqal Hamd
we dont say that sisters cant work outside at any cost. but we say that if there is no need, then better not to do so.

but do we men say that? there must be a reason for that. muslim men are not anti-muslimah. they are our sisters after all.
we must accept the fact that very few of us have strong faith. not every girl will wear proper hijab and not every boy will lower his gaze.

result: affairs, dating, hatred, crimes of passion.

are you not aware of these in indian offices?

as psychiatrists say,the attraction of men towards women is much greater than vice versa but as women are women they cannot comprehend the matter.

:)

yup bro your right!..
well, i have seen many of them in offices how they behave...
jasakallah khair akhi for the information
 
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