Sister getting Married:) :) :)

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
Assalam-o-alaikum brothers and sisters

I hope you had a wonderful summer vocation. Sadly it was too quick and now back to the life of college or school.


Well things changed for me this summer.

Before the beginning of Ramadan, all of my family except for me and my elder brother went to Pakistan. Please make duaa that they spent their time safely ameen. Although they were very glad to visit but at the same time i was unhappy because i had to live my own and talk to the walls all the time. This was the first Ramadan that i spend without my family.

But alhamdolillah as the time passed I began to learn more and more as i was alone. The first and foremost thing..... " I began to appreciate the hard work my mom was doing. Not even that i began to appreciate the work done by the female relatives as you know we guys often forget that and discredit our female relative. :)"

Just to give you an example.

I needed sewing machine to do something. I had never ever touched sewing machine before. So here we go. The first thing which i did successfully was to put the thread into the needle which itself was a pain. Next i had to put the thread at the bottom. But i didn't knew how to do it. I opened the bottom part, but then didn't knew how to close it. So i am looking here and there on what to do. Then i thought that i am an engineer...i can't give up..i will do this regardless of how much time it will take.

When the bottom part did close the thread was not coming out...Oooo God another problem..now what to do... So i realized that there was not enough thread on that thing that we put at the bottom. The biggest problem at this moment was to make the thread come up from the bottom part. I am struck with something that i never touched before.

I spent around 3 hours..(woowwwww) only on that....Just to make it short....I will not mention what happened at the end. You guys start guessing. Was i able to do it succesfully or did i fail??


SURPRIZE ..SURPRIZE..SURPRIZE...

So well yesterday i received a call from my mom that my younger sister is about to get married on September 18. :SMILY252::ma::SMILY252:. I was soo pleased to know that. Mashallah this happiness was a big surprise because i wasn't expecting that.

Please make duaa :tti_sister: that my the wedding Ceremony of My younger sister goes fine and also please make duaa that my family stays safe and sound in Pakistan.


Well this happiness is again accompanied by sorrow :shymuslima1:. Unfortunately i will not be able to attend her marriage ceremony. Sisters please inform me on how a blood sister feels if her beloved blood brother is unable to make it up for her marriage ceremony. I guess this is the last bad thing that a sister wont in her life..
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu...

hope you are good akhi....no offence but i couldn't help laughing after reading the respect to females part:p!!may b i should leave my brothers alone for some time:D would be great to hear his stories of tryna sew somthing:p~

mashallah!!that's good news.MABROOK on your sisters marriage.hope it goes well and successful.it's kinda sad you won't be there for her.
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu...

hope you are good akhi....no offence but i couldn't help laughing after reading the respect to females part:p!!may b i should leave my brothers alone for some time:D would be great to hear his stories of tryna sew somthing:p~

mashallah!!that's good news.MABROOK on your sisters marriage.hope it goes well and successful.it's kinda sad you won't be there for her.

:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu...

hope you are good akhi....no offence but i couldn't help laughing after reading the respect to females part:p!!may b i should leave my brothers alone for some time:D would be great to hear his stories of tryna sew somthing:p~

mashallah!!that's good news.MABROOK on your sisters marriage.hope it goes well and successful.it's kinda sad you won't be there for her.

Jazakumullah khair sister....May Allah shower soo much blessing on her wedding that she forget my presence. ameen :tti_sister:
I also feel sooo bad at the same time for not being there..but what i can do..i have limited options..


Now i think that every mother or sister should leave her sons or brothers alone for at least a month :).

They would even love more if they dont know how to cook food. Like in my case, i don't even know how to make food...you know I was a guy who was getting Paratha (Bread) every morning right in front of my table without even moving an inch from my table. And if Chai (Coffee/tea) was not there for even a minute, i started screaming ...mommmyyyy i need chai ..hurry up......momyyy..lol.. :hearts:

Oh and also this...when coming home after college..I take out my shirt and throw on the sofa ..take out the Pants (for changing) and throw on the bed....but now i do??? i leave for you to think..

Mashallah you know we guys are kind of spoiled in doing work at home. Its being great to have a mommy or even wife if one has one because life without them is not good, its incomplete...:)
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullah wa barakatuhu

Dear brother, Alf Mabrook to you and your beloved sister. May Allah open door of His Mercy to her and her husband, and join them in peace and happiness all thier life.May Allah reword them with beautiful children, who will be Allahs Servents one day. ameen summa ameen

Jazzak Allah khair dear brother for sharing with us this happy news. Mashallah, we are happy for you and your family.:hijabi:

May Allah bless you

:wasalam:
 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullah wa barakatuhu

Dear brother, Alf Mabrook to you and your beloved sister. May Allah open door of His Mercy to her and her husband, and join them in peace and happiness all thier life.May Allah reword them with beautiful children, who will be Allahs Servents one day. ameen summa ameen

Jazzak Allah khair dear brother for sharing with us this happy news. Mashallah, we are happy for you and your family.:hijabi:

May Allah bless you

:wasalam:

Wa-alaikumus salam wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuhu.

Jazakumullah khair sister Asja for your inspiring duaa. May Allah accept it. Ameen.

May Allah :tti_sister: provide a righteous spouse and children to the one who made this duaa. May Allah grant that person such children who will uphold the Rope of Allah and spread His message to the ones who are still waiting to receive it. Ameen

I am more than happy to share this moment of joy with my brothers and sisters of TTI. :hearts:
:)


wassalam
 

MutlekM

Junior Member
:salam2:
Mabrook to u and ur sis.

As for me i got left alone for 3 days by the end of it i was starving and half the place was a mess. Allaahuma ya hahfith umahattina wa ikhwatina.
 

MusLiMah_Kubra

Hasbi-Allah
Assalamalaikum wa rahmatul laahi wa barkatuhu

Lol...tried but couldnt hold back my laughter! but hope u learnt something new! This reminds me of my brother, i was always at his help for such stuff! he is abroad now..i wonder if he now manages it himself...miss him...

Mabrook Mabrook to u & ur sister! Jazakalalh for sharing ur happiness wit us! it indeed gets BIGGER! :) May Allah swt always shower His best blessings on both of them & May they have a blissful & lasting marriage, May Allah bless them with prosperity, peace, protection & His Bountiful Mercy.. Ameen Summa Ameen

and a dua for u too: Allah swt make it possible for u to attend ur sister's wedding Ameen Summa Ameen :)

A sister deeply misses the presence of her brother on the most important day of her life,
Yes, that would be the least she would be expecting on her Big day, especially when he is a caring & such a loving brother! So plzz try to make it up if u can Inshaallah

salamalaikum




 

helpinghumanity

Junior Member
:salam2:
Mabrook to u and ur sis.

As for me i got left alone for 3 days by the end of it i was starving and half the place was a mess. Allaahuma ya hahfith umahattina wa ikhwatina.

Wa-alaikumus salam wa rahmatullah

Jazakumullah khair brother


Only three days bro..its like nothing...

I have been living alone for more than 1 month now..so imagine lol...i have been counting days back...like the way you pluck the rose and count each petal of the rose that you take out..
 
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