where is brother dawaah

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Aapa

Mirajmom
Asalaam walaikum,

Where is Brother Dawaah? I was really enjoying the discussions with him. He had knowledge. If you are out there give us a line. I need those heady discussions. You force me to think.
 

islamirama

www.netmuslims.com
:wasalam:

It seems he has been removed from the system. He's user ID does not exit nor do his posts. I wonder if he was given any prior infractions, warnings, or any communications made by mgmt.
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Asalamaoalaikom wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh,

Don't really know, Seems like he's "bye byed". I'm a bit surprised to read your post Aapa, Your replies to his posts sure didn't seem like you enjoyed his "knowledge". Especially the one last night about him having to talk to "educated" women at TTI. That sounded like a real taunt to me.

I must have misunderstood you yet again. That's one reason I didn't ask you what's was with that sorta reply last? Khair Inshaa'Allaah.

Btw if the sister above is right, then this thread won't survive for long, Mine about Akhi Ayman related Question was soon"bye byed" *Smile*
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

He is intelligent and he has knowledge. There was no taunt. I am direct. This was a battle of the wits. We were discussing absolutes. I questioned how he arrived at the absolutes. One has to be 100% certain and then it is an absolute.
He questioned the emotionalism. He saw it as a sign of weakness. He is logical. He reminded me of Mr. Spock from Star Trek. It had to be absolute to be sensible.

And I kept saying its all about the heart, baby, its all about the heart.
 

slaveofAllah88

Slave of Allah (swt)
aslam o aliakum wr wb

I just realized about brother Aymen , he was one of the most knowledgeable brother here im so surprised there is like no record of him here at all now ....
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

Brother Ayman is doing well. You know I asked to have him come back and enlighten us.

Do you realize I never never had a debate with him. He is so intelligent and pious. I did tell him I thought his attempt at poetry sucked on his website.

If you need a link just PM please.
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Assalaam walaikum,

He is intelligent and he has knowledge. There was no taunt. I am direct. This was a battle of the wits. We were discussing absolutes. I questioned how he arrived at the absolutes. One has to be 100% certain and then it is an absolute.
He questioned the emotionalism. He saw it as a sign of weakness. He is logical. He reminded me of Mr. Spock from Star Trek. It had to be absolute to be sensible.

And I kept saying its all about the heart, baby, its all about the heart.

From what I remember of his post he really took offense, and I thought it was justified. "thought" because now you say it wasn't a taunt so. . .

Well, I know I would have been real offended if something like that was said to me. Guess it just "proves" I don't get you=(, I'm really jealous of the others now. Can you smell something burning?

Btw attend to my Message when you have time.
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Assalaam walaikum,

Brother Ayman is doing well. You know I asked to have him come back and enlighten us.

Do you realize I never never had a debate with him. He is so intelligent and pious. I did tell him I thought his attempt at poetry sucked on his website.

If you need a link just PM please.

pass my salams (namelessly). I just feel his absence on the word meaning game thread. He and another brother did well explaining things to us. May Allaah bless them both.


Now that akhi ayman is being discussed this thread is going bye bye for sure! Sorry for mentioning him Mods.
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

I do not have time to taunt anyone. It is not even a word in my vocabulary.

He is an intelligent being.. He was direct. He stated something. I am an intelligent being. I questioned his rationale.

We have a right to question each other. Not in jest.

We did not need to take offense as we were trying to communicate. He stated he enjoyed the dialogue; as did I. It was a learning process for both. I did write several times that I detected he is very intelligent and pious.

( I wrote you a lengthy response and it got lost. I will write later on.)
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Assalaam walaikum,

I did write several times that I detected he is very intelligent and pious.

( I wrote you a lengthy response and it got lost. I will write later on.)


I never said you questioned his intelligence, just said the tone of the words "seemed" wrong to me. It doesn't really matters what "I" think. That is why said I doubted my thinking and refrained from asking you anthing on that thread last night.

pff....That's like one of the most irrtating things to happen! May Allaah reward you for you intentiones
 

abdul-aziz

Junior Member
:salam2:

I liked dawaah too, even though I didn't agree with his approach to matters.

I kinda sensed from his writing style that he is someone we have seen here before. But at the same time I have to take heed from judging without evidence.

I remember those debates that used to make threads goto like 50 to 100 posts between humblewin and ayman.:SMILY346:

:wasalam:
 

alf2

Islam is a way of life
Assalaam walaikum,

Brother Ayman is doing well. You know I asked to have him come back and enlighten us.

Do you realize I never never had a debate with him. He is so intelligent and pious. I did tell him I thought his attempt at poetry sucked on his website.

If you need a link just PM please.

Please pass my salaams on to him too :inshallah:

I do wish Mabsoot would let him join again in peace. I never saw anything wrong with what he said, even some of the strictest Muslims here (who shall remain nameless) approved of him. Although with how much time he spent here and it was all washed away like a name in the sand, i guess maybe he'd be hesitant.

I discovered Dawaah was removed this evening. He wasnt here that long either :eek: I think he got off to a rocky start with the social aspect of the site, but he also had a lot of knowledge to give.

Insha'Allah, I never want to be banned from TTI :shymuslima1:
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Insha'Allah, I never want to be banned from TTI :shymuslima1:

That's like one of the scariest thought, isn't it? Funny how a forum starts feeling like home and strangers like family *Smile*. I joined other forums but none gave me these feelings. I guess its what we call "The Ummah". Alhumdulillah for being a Muslimah.

I feel really bad when someone is banned. I don't like it for myself and I don't wish it for others. That's one reason I add "Please don't bann him/her" before reporting someone =P. For me its like one of the harshest punishments.
 

Omar3rd

New Member
Asslalamu alaikum my brothers and sisters in TTI. Why brother Dawa’s account and post was removed ?

He spoke the truth in most of the subjects and posts .Truth always heart whether we agree with that or not. Sister Appa please doesn’t say “slow down” in your posts. It’s a rude way of saying “shut up”.

Remember Shaitan isn’t our biggest enemy it’s our Nafs. Shaiytan Iblis was leader of the angels but his arrogance made him the “cursed one” for eternal.

In subject of Scholar: Muslims don't worship scholars but we learn from scholars so we can follow the Quran and Ahadith of prophet (saw) correctly and follow the prophet (saw) to reach Allah (Swt).
In the matter of basic 'aqeedah or creed every person must have their own belief or knowledge. Generally, Taqleed isn't allowed there. But, when it comes to extracting legal opinions from the scripture it’s a different kettle of fish. You wouldn't expect a layperson without proper qualification allowed to practice law in any land. Islamic jurisprudence (Fiqh) is no different to that. One must be trained and qualified.

Reading the text i.e. the Qur'an or Prophetic traditions (ahadith) is something but having an expert and authoritative understanding of those text is quite something different. For example, one must know which Quranic verse or Hadith is absolute, comprehensive, explicit, general, specific, implicit, restricted, conditional, equivocal and singular in meaning, unequivocal and open to more than one meaning, abrogating and abrogated verses...so on and so forth. I'm sure you will agree this not a child's play and would require thorough training. Also this automatically assumes a mastery of classical Arabic language. Hence, the need for authoritative scholarship and scholars ('Ulama).

Three kinds of people who doesn't follow scholars:

a) qualified absolute scholars (mujtahid mutlaq)
b) sincere but misguided arrogant individuals
c) hypocrites (munafiqun) masquerading as believers to sow the seed of discord from within.

In subject of Arabs: I heard, watched many YouTube videos and read many news articles about many Arabs abusing Muslims workers from South Asian countries. I personally encountered a Syrian who said funny way” They read Quran very well but they don’t understand it. But this doesn't mean all Arabs are bad. Every country has good and bad peoples. We respect and love Arabs because the Prophet (Saw) is one of them.

In subject of living west: Islamophobia and racism towards Muslims in west increasing day by day. I think one of the reasons may be recession. I fear and pray to Allah (swt) it doesn't get bad. Allah knows the best. You can watch this video as evidence.

1. Type You Tube: British heroes with Islamic Principles England Riots.
2. Type Google : Merkel says German multicultural society has failed.
3. Type Google : State multiculturalism has failed, says David Cameron.

I ask Allah (SWT) to forgive me, if I said anything wrong.
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

Just PM me and I will give you the link to his website. And, Insha'Allah, I will pass the message to our brother.

As for Brother Dawaah..just visit his website. Dawaah.com. He has a cute family. ( if i got to the right site)

I love both of them. Intelligent and sensitive. But with a sense of humor. Ayman and Humblewun.

Sister Seeking...I am just direct. And men understand and sometimes appreciate the simpleness of being direct. It saves time in discussions.


As to the new member welcome to TTI .I defined what is the idiomatic expression slow down or slow your roll. It has nothing to do with shut up. It is asking the reader to take a moment and reread what was written. In taking a moment to slow down the process of intake, the accuracy of the information that is being taken in increases as there is less room for error in making inferences.
Chill out please. Read what I have written before you jump to conclusions. I have done nothing but praise the man. He and I enjoyed a learning experience. He had very concrete decisions. I asked what made him arrive at such conclusions and hold on to them so dearly.

So what are you saying? Slow it down...let us not label others so quickly.
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
^to Dream4jannah I agree with most of what you said except:

He spoke the truth in most of the subjects and posts .Truth always heart whether we agree with that or not.

I will not say he didn't speak the truth, I'm in no position to say so. BUT The mods at TTI are really fair and some of the best members of TTI. They DONOT bann people for speaking the truth.

This thread has become a bit of "rememberng the banned members," (sorry for that Aapa) but it's main purpose was to ask a mod what happened when it happened. Till a mod replys NO ONE should pass judgements, make assumptions OR attack them for their decisions. It's TTI rules, and when we sign up we agree to these rules. Let's be patient.
 

abdul-aziz

Junior Member
Assalaam walaikum,



As to the new member welcome to TTI .I defined what is the idiomatic expression slow down or slow your roll. It has nothing to do with shut up. It is asking the reader to take a moment and reread what was written. In taking a moment to slow down the process of intake, the accuracy of the information that is being taken in increases as there is less room for error in making inferences.
Chill out please. Read what I have written before you jump to conclusions. I have done nothing but praise the man. He and I enjoyed a learning experience. He had very concrete decisions. I asked what made him arrive at such conclusions and hold on to them so dearly.

:salam2:

I agree with the approach you mention. For example:

if you took your car to a mechanic, and he started talking about torque, technical detail, and ..... You will be like ok, ...... But is my car fixed? That is all you want to know at this time.

Instead of approaching matters with technical details you need to introduce just the concept and overall condition. Then if the person needs more information, let it rip...

that is what I know is effective.

wa Allah ya'lam

:wasalam:
 

islamirama

www.netmuslims.com
I'm surprised to here Dawaah wasn't the only one who disappeared but there were others as well. To be honest, in most forums there is a whole process of disciplines. First the user is reminded of the forum rules and which one he/she is breaking with a warning, then they are given infraction points then they are banned or they may be banned straight away depending on the severity of the issue. This disappearing act is something no one does on any forum, no matter how much they hate you. Basically what happens it that the admin labels the user as a "spammer" and as such it gives the option also "remove" all posts posted by the "spammer", and that is how you make someone disappear on forums. I doubt very much these brothers were "spammers" ...

If these brothers didn't break any rules and no body had issue with them then mgmt really need to explain themselves. Speaking of them, how come I don't see them posting in any thread? who are they? i don't know anything about them or their beliefs. And if they are banning good posters then that makes question their intentions, motives and agenda....
 

abdul-aziz

Junior Member
I'm surprised to here Dawaah wasn't the only one who disappeared but there were others as well.

.....

If these brothers didn't break any rules and no body had issue with them then mgmt really need to explain themselves. Speaking of them, how come I don't see them posting in any thread? who are they? i don't know anything about them or their beliefs. And if they are banning good posters then that makes question their intentions, motives and agenda....

:salam2:

No TTI, is an excellent site. This tight moderation is necessary. There is a lot of people who don't know how to present ideas and facts correctly. It is not a debate site. I have been here for a while and although not continuously enjoy and learn as well.

This forum is not like others. It is designed to call people to Islam and answer questions in the most appropriate manners.

imagine some asks why Muslims don't eat pork. Quote a thousand references or just tell them that Allah ordered us not to. Which do you feel is more appropriate obviously if they are not Muslim they don't believe in the Quran to start with.

A lot of times people hold on to their political views too. It should be Quran and Sunnah referenced and that is it without complicated rhetoric. If someone wants to expand they can the internet will give them millions of hits. Thus causing more confusion than initially apparent. It is always the best option to learn the basics and then when the time is right expound on that information when the time and understanding are right.

The only reason I come here is because the moderation of the forum. Otherwise, bizaar things could happen. As I witnessed this when I was deeply studying deep fiqh issues and found it counter productive.

:wasalam:
 

ShyHijabi

Junior Member
I'm surprised to here Dawaah wasn't the only one who disappeared but there were others as well. To be honest, in most forums there is a whole process of disciplines. First the user is reminded of the forum rules and which one he/she is breaking with a warning, then they are given infraction points then they are banned or they may be banned straight away depending on the severity of the issue. This disappearing act is something no one does on any forum, no matter how much they hate you. Basically what happens it that the admin labels the user as a "spammer" and as such it gives the option also "remove" all posts posted by the "spammer", and that is how you make someone disappear on forums. I doubt very much these brothers were "spammers" ...

If these brothers didn't break any rules and no body had issue with them then mgmt really need to explain themselves. Speaking of them, how come I don't see them posting in any thread? who are they? i don't know anything about them or their beliefs. And if they are banning good posters then that makes question their intentions, motives and agenda....
:salam2:

You must remember that sometimes a lot of warnings and discipline happens in PM to protect the feelings of the brother or sister. I know of two people (not well known) who were banned for sending me and other members very nasty PMs. But on the regular board they weren't saying anything against the rules. I even had a member join, not post a single post, just to PM me some serious vitriol. (accusing me of being a Jewish spy, etc., etc.,)
 
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