can people change themselfs by freewill ?

Hajjerr

He is Dhul-Jalali Wal-Ikram
Salam aleikum,

I wish i can hear opinias about this: my famelly are Christians and even they dont know yet i am muslim, they see i changed. I sometimes try tell them somethings from a logical point of view, i said please dont eat pork anymore, it is bad for health, it is bad and forbidden fat, i gave the example of my grandmother that has problems with her colesterol and blood presure. They agreed with me, ok, but they said is something they eat for a life time, what i expect them to eat, only vegetables, they have to live and work :astag: Other time i said about saints, why they celebrate them, were only people that other people called them ''saints'' after death, yes, maybe nice religious people, but have nothing to do with God. Answer: we folow what our church sais and what our parents folowed, we are not innovators...exactly like in Quran sais that most humans say...may Allah guides us, ameen :salam2:
 

Aapa

Mirajmom
Assalaam walaikum,

You ask a complex question.

If a person is not receptive to faith they will not hear. You will learn with time to spend time with those who believe. Allah sends people to us to help us become stronger.

We hold on to the hope they will change but there comes a point where you have to make the choice of being with disbelievers or believers.
 

Hajjerr

He is Dhul-Jalali Wal-Ikram
Assalaam walaikum,

You ask a complex question.

If a person is not receptive to faith they will not hear. You will learn with time to spend time with those who believe. Allah sends people to us to help us become stronger.

We hold on to the hope they will change but there comes a point where you have to make the choice of being with disbelievers or believers.

:wasalam: i choosed, thats why i am on this site :) i pray for everyone to be receptive to faith :tti_sister:
 

a_stranger

Junior Member
:salam2:

The start of change should be with faith.......islam teaches faith in Allah subhanahu wa taala first......when love of Allah subhanahu wa taala and his prophets settle in a heart everything will change easily ......i pray that Allah guide your family to his way.
 
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