How tough are you?

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

How tough is your heart?

Hi everyone. Since some of the things some of the brothers and sisters post deal with marriage I thought I would ask you all question both sisters and brothers.

You know a person for all time and you deeply care about them and you ask them to marry you and they said there are three things you need to know first:

1)I would like you as a friend.
2)I would love you as a sister or brother.
3)But I would never love or like you as my husband or wife.

Question:
If someone told you that who you care deep about what would you do or how would you feel

P.S. please be honest to yourselves when answering and have fun answer it.

Hey remember someone you love may say this to you so I am prepared you for it.

 

[Erik]

Hi everyone. Since some of the things some of the brothers and sisters post deal with marriage I thought I would ask you all question both sisters and brothers.

You know a person for all time and you deeply care about them and you ask them to marry you and they said there are three things you need to know first:

1)I would like you as a friend.
2)I would love you as a sister or brother.
3)But I would never love or like you as my husband or wife.

Question:
If someone told you that who you care deep about what would you do or how would you feel


first of all, i wanna say great brave question, this question is easy to answer from the outside point of view but Ive been wen loved someone who didnt live me, that sucks major!!
And in them cases we say and do all he wrong things.
npot things we would recomend to a friend who was in that situation because then we would only share from the side what we do because we speak with reason.
Out of all typical saying about this and love, one that got to me and the only I heard sofar that is true but takes tears to understand if you got hurted.
it goes, Noone who does not want you is worth a single tear! sounds weard right? for a person with broken heart, they allready spilled a river.
Im also sorry to say that if you ask me, no answer to your question will keep it short, if one truly love someone , it takes time and no words will shorten the pain, it takes time, I ope not for you but years 1-3 is common, for some even 5-10 years but point is, when 10 years from now , you got over the person, you will be angry becuase he os she &%¤#" you up and ruined so much time of your life, now you only blame yourself.
for a person to be rejected is a major blow to us all.
/Erik

 

[amyaishazouaoui]

:salam2:

This did actually happen to me....he felt similar, but it was a no go situation for varying resons that would have made our lives too complicated.

Alhamdulillah it never happened because it could have ruined the best friendships i ever had.

I now have good friends, people i can rely on if it really comes to the crunch and if i really get stuck somewhere i can call on them and they will do their best to help me out...because they are who they are, they are special and they taught me how to love myself and who I am.

I can only owe my life to these people and inshallah Allah grants them jannah. Alhamdulillah for them, and they know who they are. I will love them forever and be ever greatful.

 

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

Assalamu alaykum,

See to me you get up fast but i agree when you have people to relay on the pain is not that painful.

 

[Albint_Almuslima]

Question:
If someone told you that who you care deep about what would you do or how would you feel

P.S. please be honest to yourselves when answering and have fun answer it.

Asalam Aakum,

Ok lets be honest!!

If i had liked someone and i felt that i want to be with him and he tells me that we can be friends but we cant get married, at first i would be really REALLY upset. However, i would get over that because this is marriage its not a joke, both people have to want to be with eachother.

I would also stop being upset or sad ( basically depressed) because if i really like that person however he did not like me i would want him to be happy. I would want him to live a great and happy life. The prophet Peace and blessings be upon him said "No man is a true believer unless he desires for his brother that, what he desires for himself."

 

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

Assalamu alaykum,

Ok first of when i post this question i was real (being honest) thought my brothers were going to be the most responsers cos they are the ones who ask sister to marry then but i was surprise by the sister.

My turn if i was told that i honest don't know what i would do cos I never thought about it and i am don't worry about it cos i think i wouldn't ask any that.

:tti_sister: -May Allah guide us in life AMEEN!