As-salaam alaikum,
May Allah help you and guide you to the best.
Let fear of Allah be the part of our life.
May Allah keep us safe from every trap of Shaitaan.
I heard many brothers are suffering from this problem, may allah protect us.
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The Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) advised the youth with a remedy which would alleviate (any) raging desires and the danger of (these) desires, as he (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) said:
((O gathering of youth! Whoever amongst you is able, then he should get married, since that is indeed more protective for the eyes and the private parts; and whoever is unable, then he should fast, for that is indeed better for him)), [Saheeh al-Bukhaaree - V.7, P.117]
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Q135. I am a sinner and can't stop doing sins so will Allah forgive me?
Answer.
1.Allah forgives all sins
Allah(SWT) gives a heart warming promise in the Qur'an in Surah Zumur 39:53
"Say: O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls. Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
Allah(SWT) made the story of Adam(pbuh) as an example to all mankind when both he and his wife disobeyed the command of Allah, they sought Allah's forgiveness and both were forgiven.
Allah calls all mankind to repent for their sins. And he says in the Quran in Surah Yusuf 12:87
"truly no one despairs of Allah's soothing mercy, except those who have no Faith."
and in Surah al Hijr 15:56
"who despairs of the mercy of his Lord, but such as go astray?"
There are people who dispair of Allah's mercy and think that they are such sinners that Allah will never forgive them. Allah says in these two verses that such people actually disbelieve in Allah. This is because Allah has the attributes Ar Rahman (Most Gracious), Ar Raheem (Most Merciful), At Tawwaab(Oft Returning), Al Gafoor(Most Forgiving). When we despair of Allah's forgiveness and mercy it is as if we are disbelieving of Allah's these attributes.
2.Conditions of a Sincere Repentance.
Allah describes these conditions in Surah Al e Imran 3:135-136
"135 And those who, having done something to be ashamed of, or wronged their own souls, and ask for forgiveness for their sins, and who can forgive sins except Allah? and are never obstinate in persisting knowingly in (the wrong) they have done
136 For such the reward is forgiveness from their Lord, and Gardens with rivers flowing underneath- an eternal dwelling: how excellent a recompense for those who work (and strive)!"
Condition 1: Feeling guilty of doing the act of sin
The realisation in a person thqat he has done or has been doing a sin. He has been wronging his own soul.
Condition 2: Stop doing the sin
3:135 "..and are never obstinate in persisting knowingly in (the wrong) they have done". For sincere repentance the person should stop doing the sin for which he is repenting.
Condition 3: Seek forgiveness from Allah
3:135 "..ask for forgiveness for their sins, and who can forgive sins except Allah?"
42:25 " It is he who accepts repentance from his servants
Condition 4: Determine never to do the act of sin again
Condition 5: Correction
If some persons rights have been violated then those rights should be fulfilled. Eg if a person has beeen robbed then what has been robbed has to be restored. This is because the violations in Huqooq al Ibaad – rights of the creation will not be forgiven by Allah until they are restored.
Rasoolullah (SAW) said
"Do you know who is poor? They (the Companions of the Holy Prophet) said: A poor man amongst us is one who has neither dirham with him nor wealth. He (the Holy Prophet) said: The poor of my Umma would be he who would come on the Day of Resurrecton with prayers and fasts and Zakat but (he would find himself bankrupt on that day as he would have exhausted his funds of virtues) since he hurled abuses upon others, brought calumny against others and unlawfully consumed the wealth of others and shed the blood of others and beat others, and his virtues would be credited to the account of one (who suffered at his hand). And if his good deeds fall short to clear the account, then his sins would be entered in (his account) and he would be thrown in the Hell-Fire."
[Sahih Muslim vol4: no 6251]
Jazakmullah Hu-khairan
May Allah keep you away from shaitan trap and his waswasaas.
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