Asalamu alaykum,
I'm a recent convert to Islam (sister, 23 years old). Before becoming Muslim I had a serious boyfriend for nearly 6 years (friends for almost 8 years and we still live together). He is not Muslim and does not want to convert. Prior to becoming Muslim we have planned for marriage and a family together. Our families are close and we love each other very much.
I'm struggling with what to do. I want to be with him and don't want to give up the really strong relationship and future we have together. However, I know being with him does not make me a good Muslim. I want both him and Islam and am finding it impossible to even imagine living with only one or the other.
Can anyone (non-judgmentally) offer advice or a story of a similar situation? I know it's easy for someone not in the situation to just say "give him up for Islam" but it is very difficult when you're the one in it. I'm feeling hopeless...
Blessed Ramadan
I'm a recent convert to Islam (sister, 23 years old). Before becoming Muslim I had a serious boyfriend for nearly 6 years (friends for almost 8 years and we still live together). He is not Muslim and does not want to convert. Prior to becoming Muslim we have planned for marriage and a family together. Our families are close and we love each other very much.
I'm struggling with what to do. I want to be with him and don't want to give up the really strong relationship and future we have together. However, I know being with him does not make me a good Muslim. I want both him and Islam and am finding it impossible to even imagine living with only one or the other.
Can anyone (non-judgmentally) offer advice or a story of a similar situation? I know it's easy for someone not in the situation to just say "give him up for Islam" but it is very difficult when you're the one in it. I'm feeling hopeless...
Blessed Ramadan