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Wallahi i'm so sick of all this drama.
@sister Asja
I didn't mean anything by the "stings" word. It just means that i was offended but i also think some of the things you said was right, thus i accepted your advice.
I intended to be redha with what you said even though you don't know what me and sister Aisya had been through for this marriage. The only thing that I did sister, was that is that i backbit a sister in Islam, in this case was her mother. But you on the other hand just keep criticizing me with unnecessary advice like "silence is golden but good words are diamonds" thing.
Allah knows best who is the zhaalem and the mazhloom in my case with her family. So please try not to say anything when you don't know anything about we've been through (the "silence is golden" advice works both ways you know).
@Seeking Allah's Mercy
Ukh, I don't like to "assume" so what i said about the many2 years thing was based on something. But I don't want to say anything anymore. Talk to your friend if you want to know more, or don't if you don't want her to backbit her mom.
Wallahi I'm so tired of all this drama.. I'll just stay away from this matter, from struggling to make it work, from hanging around here on TTI and do more important and productive things to do for my career and my faith.
Ghafarallahu lana wa lakum ( may Allah forgive me and all of you) for the mistakes in what we said, for the misunderstandings and prejudices that we may have for our brothers and sisters in faith because of it.
Lastly @Aapa, thank you for everything that you've done for us. Even if the worst case scenario happens and everything is going south. I will always be grateful to you and will keep you in my du'a insya Allah.
Take care of yourselves.
Wassalamu'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaaatuh.
@sister Asja
I didn't mean anything by the "stings" word. It just means that i was offended but i also think some of the things you said was right, thus i accepted your advice.
I intended to be redha with what you said even though you don't know what me and sister Aisya had been through for this marriage. The only thing that I did sister, was that is that i backbit a sister in Islam, in this case was her mother. But you on the other hand just keep criticizing me with unnecessary advice like "silence is golden but good words are diamonds" thing.
Allah knows best who is the zhaalem and the mazhloom in my case with her family. So please try not to say anything when you don't know anything about we've been through (the "silence is golden" advice works both ways you know).
@Seeking Allah's Mercy
Akh, her mom doesn't like (or should I say approve of) you doesn't mean our sister had to bear many many many many (sorry got carried away) things from her.
Ukh, I don't like to "assume" so what i said about the many2 years thing was based on something. But I don't want to say anything anymore. Talk to your friend if you want to know more, or don't if you don't want her to backbit her mom.
Wallahi I'm so tired of all this drama.. I'll just stay away from this matter, from struggling to make it work, from hanging around here on TTI and do more important and productive things to do for my career and my faith.
Ghafarallahu lana wa lakum ( may Allah forgive me and all of you) for the mistakes in what we said, for the misunderstandings and prejudices that we may have for our brothers and sisters in faith because of it.
Lastly @Aapa, thank you for everything that you've done for us. Even if the worst case scenario happens and everything is going south. I will always be grateful to you and will keep you in my du'a insya Allah.
Take care of yourselves.
Wassalamu'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaaatuh.