6 WIVES LIVING IN SAME HOUSE

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    salam my bro.s and sis.s
    hehehehe sorry 4 asking
    i wantd ur advise if someone has 6 wives(i dont have just asking) and he keeps them all in 1 small home is it ok?(2 bedrooms home) if the wives stay unitd and dont fight
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    Wa-alaikumus salam

    Are these imaginary wives? LOL

    What did you eat or drink today? I know couple of doctors who can treat you very well and diagnose the illness, whether it is physical or mental, in just minutes for free... Would you like to make an appointment?
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    No thanku.
    4 wives frm very poor bakground so wen they live in this house with their husband they think they have becum rich becuz they travel in car first they travel on foot . Shud he buy another home?
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    is this where one man has 6 wives?
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    yes. . . .*.
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    Assalaam alaikum,

    Funny funny,...but it takes a Believing brother to understand the responsibility. Son, if you think all it takes to please a wife is a car..you have a long long way to go...think of the woman who gives up the car and lives in humble dwellings for the Love of Allah.

    Think of the sister who understands her position and is willing to wish for her sister that which she has for herself...and not tell her sister you will have to wait until you are in heaven...
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    bt wat if the living is islamic and they all understand eachother
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    :salam2:

    It not permissible for a man to be married to more than 4 wives at one time. Regardless of the living conditions his last two wives are not considered valid. This is clearly stated in the Qur'an and Hadith.
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    Assalaam alaikum,

    Brother,

    On a serious note we have many married sisters who have no comprehension of the need for a man to marry more than one. They do not understand the wisdom of Allah's Laws. And that is their loss. Thus we have many brothers who fail to fulfill a community responsibility and help weaken the bonds of community. There are many social evils that can be avoided by fulfillment of Pleasing Allah subhana wa taala.
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    I find this scenario to be highly disturbing. Islam does not permit harems. The holy Prophet married war widows who were all older than him with children (except Aisha). The law regarding polygamy is related to a practical cause.

    What is this man doing with 6wives? In small confined space? I've heard weird stories about men like that. I think it behooves the original poster to intervene in this "family" and ensure the women are not beig abused or subject to this mans unusual sexual quirks. Shouldn't a local imam or elder get involved?
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    i read that only 2 of his (saw) wives were older than him (saw).
    :wasalam:
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    Know thy limits

    :wasalam:

    I dont have further advice, Almight Allah has a better advice for me, you and all men.

    I have a question. and am not sorry for asking :)
    What if that some one is you? but your answer tells me its not you.
    I hope its a hypothetical question. Because Almighty Allah has clearly set the rule's on marriage matters, and 6 breaks the rules. And If you have asked this because you have recently been told nonsense by the slanderers, then read the correct verse in Qur'an, the sunnah related to it. Here is a relevant thread from TTI. Take your time to assimilate it.

    Read this :
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    Walaikum assalam

    They might end up fighting......6 wives(not even allowed) ....... *SMH*
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    exactly, whats he doing with 6 wives? he needs to get rid of 2 of them first

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