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[rightpath_357]

aw- sis! thats horrile. why the heck would we be annoyed? we're here 4 u. I now it's hard. just look at the positive. maybe u could do some other stuff that u like.maybe u could contact ur friends from school in some way??????

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

assalamualaikum sister.

Dont worry. ALLAH with u. When you are sad ALLAH is with u. Use this chance to remember HIM a lot and supplicate and ask HIM anything. Maybe ALLAH is preparing something sooooo special for u tomorrow.
You are not alone. There are so many people have the same or bigger problems than that.
Just hold on sister and make du'aa. may Allah help you out and be pleased with u.

Walaikumu salam

Awww JazakAllahu khair sister for your kind kind words And yess sis you are right, there are people who have bigger problems than me

Make lotss of duas for me And of course I will make it for myself as well inshaAllah

Love you soo much for the sake of Allah (swt)

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

Do you have any other relatives near your area that you can live with? if so i would advice that you go and live with them. otherwise call your relatives and let them know what your parents are putting you through. they should intervene and talk to your parents or help resolve this situation. take care ukhti. and please, no matter what happens, don't kill yourself due to the hardship you're bearing. inshaAllah you'll be successful in the end.
take care ukhti.
wasalamu 3alaykum.
and i love you very much. pm me and send me your email if you don't mind.
-Ni'mah

No sis I don't have relatives near my area I wish I did though I'd just run away then...and live with them Khair InshaAllah....

Thankxx for your kind words btw
I love you too....soo soo soo much for Allah's sake Tc

 

[Muslim_Gurl]

Salamalikum sister,

I dont know in what context or state of mind you are writing this, but I do know something for sure. That you are supposed to obey your parents in EVERY matter except disobedience to Allah. I know I can't judge exactly in what situation you are in, but from my own experience of such fights with my parents let me give you some advice.

I always used to wonder why in the world did my mother shout. I would be sitting there doing nothing, and all of a sudden there will be a hurricane of words fired at me. I was confused. Why?
Only recently did I realize the actual reason they SHOUT: to be heard. I never really paid proper attention to what she was telling. I only knew that she was shouting. I never did what she asked me to. I never heard.
Be honest with yourself. Parents, especially muslim parents, can't be cruel to their children all of a sudden. What was the actual reason they are punishing you like this?

You say they never let you speak. Then show them what you have to say through your actions. Control your anger. Bear every hurtful word they say. Be eager and on alert for any help you can do them around the house. They'll definitely notice the changes! and Insha Allah, allow you to speak. It'll take time, but if you are extremely nice to them whenever they are extremely hurtful, they are humans too, they cannot be cruel to a child who gives them this much respect.
Shutting everyone out and staying in your room is not a solution. Nor is sitting on the computer, even if it's TTI. You might become hypocritical. It's sort of like missing a salah because you have to post a reply to a Salah doubt!
"And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be Dutiful to your parents. And if one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, Say not to them a word of disrespect ("Uff"), nor shout at them, But address them in terms of honour. And lower to them the wings of submission and humility through Mercy, And say: My Lord, have Mercy on them, as they did bring me up when I was young" Al Isra, 23-24.

Tell me how it goes. May Allah make it easy for you to do the right thing. ameen.
take care and
Salaamalaikum.

Walaikumu salam

Ukhti, they don't like it when I'm trying to be more religious and trying to please my Lord and trying to avoid all the harmful things in life and just trying to be a good muslimah

Is that a crime?

It does seem like one to them