Wa alaykum salam
Firstly, she should learn about ISlam from good Muslim Sisters.
She should not concern herself with getting married or brothers pestering her for that.
She must learn about Islam and know more about it, this will help inform her of what sort of person she should marry.
When person does marry, they should NEVER rush such things, look at the family of the man, his friends etc.. she should have a Mahram, and if her parents are not against Islam etc, there is no matter if she gets feedback from them and involve them in her decision. Those who say opposite to this are simply being extreme and going against what Islam says.
Wasalam