About families...

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

Assalam to all,

Since there was a lot thread dealing with marriage i real was surprise that on one mentions families. I mean, don't families and marriage go together. Isn't improtant to talk about your future family with your future spouse? Anyways, my question is what is your view on families (small or big families) and adopations of children that are orphans?

 

[Ita-rosa]

Salam

Assalam to all,

Since there was a lot thread dealing with marriage i real was surprise that on one mentions families. I mean, don't families and marriage go together. Isn't improtant to talk about your future family with your future spouse? Anyways, my question is what is your view on families (small or big families) and adopations of children that are orphans?

Wa aleykum assalam wa ramatulAllah wa baraktu

My view on family is for me individually. I think to get many or a small amount of children is individual, because it depends on a lot of factors in your life. Can you afford it? Are you muture enough? Are your life stabil enough. These reasons is often the reasons why there are becoming orphans.
I do think if you can have children it is your duty to have one, then its your own choise, how many.
But i think that it is in Allah subhana wa ta'ala's best to get children.
If you are in that unfortunate situation, where you can not get children, i think it is definitely okay to adopt, because everyone shouold have that joy of becoming a mother.
But Allahu Alem wa Allahu Akbar!

Ma salam

 

[TheKnowledgeSeeker]

Assalamu Alaykum

Very true. Masha'Allah!