Salam-alaykum warah matuallah wa bara katu.
I am 23 from London. I consider myself to be quite a decent Muslim - I pray 5 times a day, I am conscience of my actions, have had the privilege of going on Hajj and Umrah on many occasions.
However, I feel as though my life is without purpose. I have no reason to wake up in the morning (except to pray). I have failed out of medical school and now seem to be struggling with law school. I am completely unmotivated.
I have heard somewhere before, that being fed up of this dunya can be seen as a good thing in the sense that I realise the futility of life and that it's the next life that we need to strive for. But if I'm struggling in my day to day life, how can that be good?
I'm not having a crisis of faith at all. I consider my deen to be quite strong.
My problems are that I am disillusioned with my life in almost every aspect. I have literally no friends (for one reason or another). If I continue the way I am at university I'll have no job prospects - therefore no marriage.
My parents last night found out about my terrible progress in law school and I have never seen them this upset with me before. My Mother doesn't even want to look or speak to me. My father threatened me with kicking me out of the house. To say the least they are extremely fed up and upset with me.
I don't know what to do. I am at a loss as to how to rectify the situation with my parents and how to sort my life out. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE APPRECIATED. as I have nobody to turn to (except my dua'as)
I would say that I am depressed but that would not solve anything and may just be a knee jerk reaction to my situation.
Please could you help me get my life back on track?
JazakAllah Hare
I am 23 from London. I consider myself to be quite a decent Muslim - I pray 5 times a day, I am conscience of my actions, have had the privilege of going on Hajj and Umrah on many occasions.
However, I feel as though my life is without purpose. I have no reason to wake up in the morning (except to pray). I have failed out of medical school and now seem to be struggling with law school. I am completely unmotivated.
I have heard somewhere before, that being fed up of this dunya can be seen as a good thing in the sense that I realise the futility of life and that it's the next life that we need to strive for. But if I'm struggling in my day to day life, how can that be good?
I'm not having a crisis of faith at all. I consider my deen to be quite strong.
My problems are that I am disillusioned with my life in almost every aspect. I have literally no friends (for one reason or another). If I continue the way I am at university I'll have no job prospects - therefore no marriage.
My parents last night found out about my terrible progress in law school and I have never seen them this upset with me before. My Mother doesn't even want to look or speak to me. My father threatened me with kicking me out of the house. To say the least they are extremely fed up and upset with me.
I don't know what to do. I am at a loss as to how to rectify the situation with my parents and how to sort my life out. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE APPRECIATED. as I have nobody to turn to (except my dua'as)
I would say that I am depressed but that would not solve anything and may just be a knee jerk reaction to my situation.
Please could you help me get my life back on track?
JazakAllah Hare