Am I alone

[ihmr]

asalamu alailum wa ramatulaih

My name is ihmr I am from phila, pa ,20 yrs, i'm a student at keystone job corp center in drums, pa I met and greeted alot of muslims male and female
I been at job corp for 10 months now at the moment me and my girlfriend splitted up because I said do you think I would **** you if I was to find you doing something with another men in our home then she said its over me and her is expecting a baby soon shes pregnant with my child I dont know what it is maybe a boy or girl she is three months I am about to graduate soon before her she wants to give our child up for adoption she is serious I respect her alot treat her almost like a queen like a women should be treated her name ******she is 18 years old from *******
I am trying to stop her from giving our child away to a foster parent because I want to raise my child but lately the phone numbers I've been using keeps giving me the run around think you could help me stop her from doing this
I havent change my name yet my birth name is *******I am need of all the help I can get Because I have to be responsible now I did not tell my family yet because they would not care wheather I did or not because we dont cummunicate like a family should

 

[Aapa]

Salaam,

You are not alone. There are many things you have written. I suggest you contact a masjid. There are many, many masjids in Philly. Ask them to help you seek legal aid. If not. contact legal aid. I also suggest you talk to her mother.
You need to listen to Muslim men. You need to slow down. The nice thing about the Muslim men in Philly is they come from all walks of life.
You need to practice your faith, a little more. Put all your trust in Allah.
The members of this community will pray for you. Son, listen to the men of this community. InshaAllah, all will work out.

 

[Albint_Almuslima]

AsalamAlakum,

Welcome to TTI

It’s nice to have u join this lovely community.

Insha Allah u benefit from us as we from u.

Enjoy ur stay Insha Allah,

Thats really good that you want to raise your child, insha Allah u can be up to the responsibility. Insha Allah you find your girlfriend and take your baby instead of it being thrown in a foster home.

I agree with the sister that you should contact a masjid maybe they will be able to help you figure things out!



Take Care,

 

[IbnAlAawam]

Try and speak to a lawyer or any association that helps fathers. Speak to your Imam.
And pray Allah to help you.


Salam alaykoum