Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
Assalam alakum
I just wonder if its something so weird or even pathetic what comes to my mind;
You know, i never knew a female who lives with her uncle alone for long time. But now there is someone i know and honestly sometimes not nice things come to my mind when i imagine they stay alone most time, they stay in same house etc. I heard really horrible things from media and honestly maybe because of my mind corruption too, i can not think good about men, Like people can do really bad things even if the girl is their mahram. (I think you got what i mean, i dont need to go details)
So maybe because of this, i cant imagine a girl living alone with a man other than her husband or father (especially if he is single) and they live together they go gatherings together and things like that. It sounds pretty weird to me and makes me feel bad about situation even though i know that he is her mahram.
Do you think its really bad what comes to my mind and i should just stop thinking about it?
or do you think its normal what concerns me ?
I just wonder if its something so weird or even pathetic what comes to my mind;
You know, i never knew a female who lives with her uncle alone for long time. But now there is someone i know and honestly sometimes not nice things come to my mind when i imagine they stay alone most time, they stay in same house etc. I heard really horrible things from media and honestly maybe because of my mind corruption too, i can not think good about men, Like people can do really bad things even if the girl is their mahram. (I think you got what i mean, i dont need to go details)
So maybe because of this, i cant imagine a girl living alone with a man other than her husband or father (especially if he is single) and they live together they go gatherings together and things like that. It sounds pretty weird to me and makes me feel bad about situation even though i know that he is her mahram.
Do you think its really bad what comes to my mind and i should just stop thinking about it?
or do you think its normal what concerns me ?