Assalamualaikum warahmatullah hiwabarakatuh Ukthi Selina,
Welcome to TTi! Whatever concern that you may have, just voice it out, insyaAllah we will be able to help you. We are after all one family.
If you want to, you can register at the Sisters' Sensitive Forum where sensitive issues concerning us women can be discussed and brothers out there will not be able to access to it.
Wassalam.